It is important to share the educational experience of excellent parents' families, but every child will have various problems in the process of growing up. Some excellent family education experiences can help us very well. The following are the educational experiences shared by excellent parents and families.
Share the experience of excellent parents' family education 1 I am the father of xXX in Class X, Grade 5, XX Primary School. After transferring from grade four to Xiangtou Primary School, Xx was awarded the title of "Top Ten Students" every semester. My son did well in school, and he was the monitor. He was very popular with his classmates and praised by his teachers. As a parent, I feel gratified from the bottom of my heart.
Like most parents, I am ordinary, and there will be no earth-shattering feat to infect or educate my children. Although my education method is not the most scientific, I have paid attention to cultivating children since I was a child, guiding and encouraging them correctly, and cultivating them to be human, do things, become useful and grow up. I think this is what family education needs most.
Let's talk about my experience in educating children.
First, attach importance to cultivating children's good life and study habits from an early age.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. If children want to have good quality, they must be cultivated from an early age. I noticed this when the children were still in kindergarten. For example, let him take the big fruit to the child and eat the smallest one himself;
Take out your favorite toys and play with children. After primary school, I taught him to care and help others, and not to always consider his own interests everywhere. Over time, I found that the child's selfishness gradually decreased.
Good study habits are also developed slowly from childhood. I often reason with my children and encourage them to be positive and study hard. Educate children to finish their homework on time and read more extracurricular knowledge. Habits are formed, and I hardly have to worry about my children's homework. Even in winter and summer vacations, Jin Feng consciously does his homework for a while every day, and then goes out to play.
Second, pay attention to communication with children.
No matter how busy my business is, I will ask my children about their studies. Ask him if he has finished his homework, ask him if his teacher can understand the lecture, and ask him if there is anything he doesn't understand in his homework.
. Encourage him to ask more questions when he meets something he doesn't understand. Although it is a simple question, let the child know that you care about his study and make him afraid to relax; Let your child know what you expect of him and give him the motivation to make progress.
The child's inner world is very rich. To understand children, we can only change our hearts and win trust with trust. It is necessary to protect children's self-esteem and cultivate self-confidence. Through careful observation, heart-to-heart conversation, careful care and patient help, we can understand the troubles and spiritual needs of children's growth. Talk to your child more quietly, be your child's psychologist, and stimulate your child's desire to make progress.
Besides, I also attach importance to teaching children how to get along with others. Unite with classmates and help each other.
Third, pay attention to the use of incentive mechanism.
I set a target score for my children's study. If I achieve my goal, I will get some spiritual or material rewards. Xx is very interested in reading, and I will give him his favorite books. Appropriate rewards make children more interested in learning.
Fourth, respect children's interests.
Like other children, Xx likes watching TV. I didn't object blindly, but taught him to be temperate. He likes reading. I encourage him, support him and often give him money to buy books. Sometimes, he stays at home and reads books all day. I will encourage him to go out for more activities, combine work and rest, and study scientifically.
There are no parents in the world who don't love their children, and there are no parents who don't want their sons to be dragons and their daughters to be phoenixes! However, educating children to become useful people requires some ideas and methods. I hope parents all over the world can find suitable ways to educate their children!
Experience sharing of excellent parents' family education II. A warm and harmonious family environment is the source of children's healthy growth.
Home is the main activity place for children, and the quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's physical and mental health. Parents must not always quarrel with their tongues in front of their children, which will make them feel fear, inferiority or even disgust. Not only will it alienate the feelings between children and parents, but it may also lead to extreme behavior among peers.
Giving children a safe, comfortable and warm home is the first step to teach them. Family members should love each other and live in harmony. In this regard, we use practical actions to let our daughter feel the warmth of the family.
Second, it is very important to cultivate children's good moral character step by step.
Our daughter started kindergarten at the age of 3 and entered the formal education system. We should lay a good foundation for her to take the first step in life and cultivate some good qualities in her life, so as to get rid of the common problem of "self-centered" contemporary only child. For example, tell her the story of "Kong Rong let pears" and put it into practice, so that she can understand the truth of respecting the old and loving the young;
Tell her that it is very happy to help others and let her know that she should help others; When playing with friends, give and take and so on. In my spare time, I often play games with my daughter. I said the last sentence: "My sister fell." The daughter added, "I'll help her up right away." Enjoy it.
Third, let the children "do it themselves" and cultivate their hands-on ability and self-care potential.
The importance adults attach to children's education directly affects whether children will develop good behavior habits. Whether adults attach importance to it or not, and whether the educational methods are correct or not, the first is the concept. Some parents want their children to succeed. They are under increasing pressure in their studies and take more care of their lives, but they leave their children's good behavior habits behind and let themselves go. I think it is especially important for children to have a good habit of loving their work.
Let children participate in the labor within their power, which can not only cultivate children's working habits and hard-working morality, but also cultivate children's independence, sense of responsibility, self-confidence, willpower and other good qualities and various potentials. Therefore, when my daughter was very young, I began to ask her to do some housework as much as I could.
Such as: packaging toys, dressing, washing handkerchiefs, washing socks, making beds, etc. Of course, children often can't do well, so we can't judge them by the standards of adults. As long as the child has made efforts, parents should fully affirm it. This is a challenge for them, and it requires children to make great efforts.
Fourth, let children be less stressed and more simple.
After studying, we should pay attention to let the children relax properly, take half an hour to walk and jog every night, use this time to understand the children's spiritual needs, and often have heart-to-heart talks with children, observe the children's physical and mental changes at any time, and be good at using the little things in life to open their hearts.
Learn to look at your child with appreciation, and be good at catching the bright spot in her. Don't compare your own children with others' children, but compare your children's present and past, look at their progress vertically, find and affirm any achievements they have made in time, let them feel our praise and encouragement, and improve their self-confidence and good study habits.
Children's hearts are sensitive. What kind of seeds are sown, what kind of flowers and fruits will be harvested. Therefore, I sincerely hope that my parents will sow the seeds of beauty, kindness and friendliness.
Let beautiful, kind and friendly flowers bloom in children's hearts. Don't let the "ambitious" psychology become the pressure of children, let nature take its course and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, so that children can study easily. Believe that gold always shines!
Sharing the educational experience of excellent parents' families 3 As we all know, family education is the enlightenment education of each of us and the foundation of our lifelong growth. Therefore, we should create a healthy, scientific and happy growth space for children. Mutual respect between husband and wife, care and respect between old people and young people, and harmony among family members will directly affect children's physical and mental development.
We can't bring the troubles and unhappiness at work to our families and children. Don't promise things that children can't do at will. Cultivate children to be honest and trustworthy from an early age.
Children nowadays are smarter and more lively than before. Children are growing, and our parents should keep learning and growing, and learn new things and knowledge. Children have strong imitation ability. They are often influenced by their surroundings and imitate people or things around them. Therefore, the living environment of the family and the role of parents are all "silent education".
My daughter is seven years old and has just entered the second grade. Once, the husband asked his daughter, "Fanfan, what do you want to do when you grow up?" I was there, full of expectations for this mystery.
I saw my daughter think for a moment, her eyes turned sharply, her speech speed was extremely fast, and she answered easily: "Stock trading at home." At that moment, I was shocked! I am a freelancer, with free and flexible time, and often look at stocks in front of the computer. She must think it is easy to sit in front of the computer and stock market, and then choose it as her ideal career in the future.
From then on, I began to reflect on my daily words and deeds, and then made some additions, deletions and adjustments in this regard. Strive to achieve: in front of children, do not look at stocks, do not play games, do not chat online, and do not bring any adverse effects to children.
So I had more free time, and I began to try to make all kinds of snacks. Now, most China snacks are not a problem for me. Let me compliment you on your skill, hehe. I also learned to make birthday cakes recently.
I have mastered one more skill myself. Children also like to watch the process of making snacks and sometimes help together. Plus her own creativity, we are both very happy and taste better. It can be seen that at ordinary times, what our parents do is watched by their children, which will also affect them. We should use a good environment and example to influence and edify children.