Don't compare

Universality and particularity of contradiction

Winning is to be better than you used to be.

Everyone's total length of life is similar, and the total amount of life affairs is similar.

Multidimensional rewind

One: Time Latitude

Time is a fair resource, so we should allocate time resources reasonably.

20% of the time to reach 80% of the results, we have to consider that if we use each of the other four well, the results can be quadrupled. (Play each role well, each accounting for 20%)

A gentleman is not like an instrument, and his function is limited to one aspect.

Empty Cup mentality

Wise men are not confused.

Doing subtraction and addition is the core ability of time management.

Playing multiple roles is essentially grabbing time (doing subtraction)

Integration from one role to another (students+quadratic curve, listening to books+doing housework, family reading club+accompanying family)

Summary is to improve the planning ability (because the planning ability is poor without summary). The summary is supported by data.

In the era of digital economy, mastering data and mastering the future (recording yourself with data), there is no right to speak without summary.

Old knowledge: winning efficiency manual+summary rewind manual 202111,but it still doesn't work.

Action:

1: Write all kinds of books.

2. Make good use of addition and subtraction to increase the ability to add more (do your role at any time).

II. The role of return

Real EQ experts expect the same management (self/others' comments/actual consistency).

Don't set your expectations too high, but pursue increasing.

Old knowledge: the consciousness and concept of not playing a good role.

Action: Consciously play all roles and do more matching things at all times.

Third, the recovery of wealth.

There must be a goal behind the money (play every role well)

Money is a tool to realize dreams and an equivalent exchange.

For example, children's goal of giving back to their parents (giving gifts to their parents every week and caring for their parents)

How much does it cost to plan the way to educate children?

The first aspect: set aside a flexible sum of money (security insurance, emergency funds) for family needs.

The reason for the collapse of enterprises is the break of cash flow.

Cash flow ranks first.

The second aspect: personal investment (women's economic independence is very important)

Everyone is an independent person.

Thinking ability is the core ability to distinguish people.

The third aspect: target investment

Old knowledge: I haven't calculated it.

Action:: Insist on monthly statistics.

Four: goal realization

Subconscious behavior (psychological representation) of the target (holding an umbrella in rainy days)

Set goals and cut off what you can and can't do.

Goals are divided into important and urgent.

Sister Meng: No entertainment, no gossip, no games, just mindfulness.

Old knowledge: it is also a big problem that some things set the path that the goal has not been achieved. (solved by input method)

Action: Practice deliberately. You must have a goal at any time and have a result.

Fifth, learn to resume.

Personal growth comes from learning.

The most effective learning is to produce results, which is an economical way (find the learning method that suits you best), such as reading, taking people as teachers, taking teachers' classes and training courses)

Evaluation of learning effect (very important? ), spend the same time which kind of learning effect suits you best. Be sure to study with goals and results.

Action: At present, listening to books, learning camps and offline classes are my fastest growing and most economical.

Sixth, the recovery of social capital.

What can help you achieve effective goals is social capital.

It doesn't matter how many awesome people you know. The important thing is to make yourself valuable, find the needs of others and solve their needs, so that others can help you.

We should maintain social capital (people) with goals.

Think about it: What value can you provide to others (be needed)?

Old knowledge: The character 20/120/ 150 in the rule is not satisfied at all.

Action: Raise awareness, make friends actively, keep the talent related to reading and storytelling, and spread thinking.

Seven regrets and seven mistakes.

Knowledge must be linked.

Old knowledge: I'm at a loss, as if I did everything right.

Action: Avoid mistakes in emotional management and role-playing? It happens again.

Eight-body resuscitation

Comparison between this year's physical examination and the original physical examination

Consult a professional.

Emotional recovery: Emotion is our bottom operating system, and this system has crashed. No matter how many apps are installed, it is useless.

Old knowledge: I never thought that I could make a little progress than in the past.

Action: I have had a physical examination this year, and then I will have a physical examination the next year to keep the data and make a comparative analysis.

Nine energy recovery

Energy can be upgraded, just like brain power.

Be a principled person according to the energy wave diagram

Old knowledge: energy management knows but does not deliberately avoid family members.

Action: Emotion &; Energy is closely related to efficiency: Remit my energy fluctuation chart again. When you are weak, you should avoid communicating with your family. After 10:00 in the evening, my good mood all day will be ruined by communication with my family, so I want to avoid it. Does the child get up early every morning in a bad mood and leave him alone?

Ten, establish five-year development goals.

Standing on the top of the mountain, look at the next five years. Exercise your foresight.

Dare to think and do

Choose a good thing, do it well in 3-5 years, and practice a hard skill.

Old knowledge: confusion

Action: 1) Now when you can't choose this thing well, do reading+reading. 2) When you can't choose which dance to dig deeply, try to learn Latin dance well. 3) Continue to try other dances.

Write some grateful people and things.

Man is great because he is always grateful. (everything)

Meng Jie wrote about people or things that set obstacles for himself.

Old knowledge: people who are helpful to themselves.

Action: Deliberately practice recording grateful people and things.

I want to understand a truth every day and sum up a truth every year.

Become a wise person: (improve yourself in thought and behavior)

1: Know yourself (statistics)

Step 2 identify others

Increase social attributes and win-win cooperation.

3. What is the core of entrepreneurship? We should seize the opportunity.

To see the essence through the phenomenon is to grasp the law.

Essential thinking

4. Growth rate: compound interest effect

Thinking must be improved and action ability must be strong.

Write your homework again.