1, willing to talk to people and speak politely.
Politeness is the most basic moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society. It is gradually formed in people's long-term common life and communication, and is fixed by traditions, customs and habits. Politeness may be the greatest invention in the history of human civilization. It can help people solve many problems in daily life.
No matter how little help others give you, you should say "thank you" sincerely. The correct use of the word "thank you" will make your language full of charm and make the other person feel warm. Pay attention to the other person's reaction in time when thanking. When the other person is at a loss for your thanks, you should explain the reasons for your thanks to him in concise language. Thank others for their gratitude. Thanks can be answered by "nothing, you're welcome", "I'm happy to help" and "I should".
2, pay attention to listen to each other's speech, can understand everyday language.
Everyone wants to be respected and valued by others. When we listen to each other attentively, listen carefully, or even listen attentively, the other party will feel respected and valued, and the distance between the two sides will inevitably narrow.
Being a patient listener first is the correct expression of conversation attitude. A person who is good at listening to others quietly is probably a thoughtful, thoughtful and modest person.
Such people may not be noticed by people in the crowd, but they must be the most respected in the end. Because he is open-minded and easy to be liked by others; Because he has ideas, he can gain the trust of others. So smart people always talk less, use their mouths less, use their ears more and pay more attention.
3. Be able to clearly say what you want to say.
"Language expression is the most important communication tool for human beings", which is familiar to every educator. People always learn a language orally, and 3-6 years old is the key period for children to express orally. At this time, if children can be given correct education, it will lay a good foundation for their future language development.
The "Guidelines for Kindergarten Education" clearly puts forward that "children's language ability is developed in the process of application", so that children should be willing to talk with others and speak politely; Pay attention to each other's words and understand everyday language; Can clearly say what you want to say. "
I like listening to stories and reading books.
The cultivation of children's good reading habits and reading ability can't be accomplished simply by teachers preaching or guiding children to read a few books. Creating a good reading environment for children is the premise of cultivating children's good reading habits. Let children gradually develop in a positive dialogue with the environment.
In the process of guiding children to make up books, they have cultivated their awareness of environmental protection and learned how to read correctly, thus further inspiring their awareness of caring for books.
Books are one of the effective ways for children to acquire knowledge. Although parents buy many colorful and vivid books for their children, sometimes they lack correct guidance and their children's interest in books is not very high.
Especially failed to develop good reading habits. In the pre-test survey of children's reading habits, it is not difficult to find that parents generally think that the cultivation of children's reading habits is more important, but there are no effective measures to cultivate them, just let nature take its course. It has caused a serious phenomenon, that is, many children can't read page by page, can't sort out books, and can't compete for books.
5. Be able to understand and speak Mandarin.
Therefore, we must first create a good family language environment. Children's language learning needs a good language environment. Family language environment has the most direct influence on the development of children's language ability, and the communication between children and their main caregivers is the most important factor affecting their language development. Therefore, family members should overcome various obstacles and provide a good family language environment for their children.
For example, family members should try to standardize their own language and insist on communicating in Mandarin. Pay attention to improve your language expression level and quality, and ensure that your pronunciation is standardized and correct. As long as they persist, children will inevitably be subtly influenced and learn to speak Mandarin. Thirdly, we must insist on communicating with our children in Mandarin.
In life, many parents try their best to create a Putonghua language environment for their children, but for various reasons, many families can't persevere. Some parents have this concern: "My ordinary phone call is not standard, so I am embarrassed to say." "Since it is not standard, then simply use dialects." Even Mandarin with dialects is more beneficial than communicating with children in dialects. Parents should not feel embarrassed, and boldly communicate with their children in Mandarin.