Many people will feel the same way when a child cries after getting six points in the math exam. Nowadays, most parents attach importance to their children's education and their achievements, and almost all of them have the experience of tutoring their children. But after the experience, I found that it is really not easy to coach children. You don't have to pay for it. It may be that the greater the effort, the smaller the return, and even the worse the children's grades.
It is often said that mothers who don't do homework are kind and filial, and they jump like chickens when doing homework. Many parents will feel this way, which is also a true portrayal of many families now. This woman in Zhengzhou, Henan Province sent a video. Her husband was angry with her son and cried. Because some time ago, her husband helped the children with their homework every day. The child only got 6 points in the math exam, and he could get 40-50 points or even 70-80 points before tutoring. This made her husband feel particularly sad, thinking that there was no return at all, and said that he would let his son die in the future.
Parents will be really sad when they encounter this situation, and they will feel deeply powerless. But at this time, they should not give up their children, let alone let their sons die. What they have to do is to find a balance between themselves and their sons, which will not interfere with their children's learning too much, but also guide their children's interest in learning, so that they can slowly fall in love with learning and have the motivation to learn, thus improving their grades.
Children in primary school mainly cultivate their interest in learning, rather than memorizing knowledge. If parents can't master the correct methods of tutoring their children, don't interfere too much with their children's learning, otherwise too much interference will make the parent-child relationship too tense, and it is easy for children to have rebellious psychology in learning events and hate that boy. It may be because of his father's strict requirements and long-term supervision that his academic performance is not good. Other parents should also learn lessons and educate their children in a scientific and effective way. They should not blindly think that tutoring will improve their grades. The most important thing is to make children fall in love with learning.