How much can family education account for a person's success? According to the survey conducted by the education department of the United Nations, family education accounts for 80% of a person's success, while school education and social education only account for 20%. However, many of us have great expectations for school education and social education, and simply don't know what family education is, thus ignoring family education.
There is a saying in the field of psychology: "Happy people use their childhood to cure their whole lives, while unfortunate people use their whole lives to cure their childhood."
Children who are treated well in childhood will never treat the world badly when they grow up; Children who are abused in childhood will never be kind to the world when they grow up.
Wang Chuang, the founder of China Psychology, is the pioneer of family system education. At present, his courses have spread all over the province, the whole country and more than ten countries around the world. Because he grew up in a rich family environment, his parents gave him enough spiritual nutrition, and his heart has always been full of forward strength.
What we advocate is family system education, that is, family education should not be fragmented, fragmented and incomplete, but should be based on human growth and viewed from a forward-looking, strategic and systematic perspective.
Psychological life-oriented family system education is to use the language of ordinary people to speak practical family education courses that ordinary people can understand and use, and to be practical.
Therefore, when children are young, parents should pay attention to family system education, pay attention to children's psychological construction, give children a sense of security, belonging and importance, and let them live in the ocean of love, and their spiritual world is extremely rich. When children grow up, they will naturally give back to their families and society.
The state has legislated on family education, and our parents should study the family system education curriculum based on human nature and children's psychological construction.
Then why does the country attach so much importance to it? Just because our parents don't understand family education and use the wrong methods to educate and guide them, more and more children feel inferior, have no dreams and no direction, and lie flat on their backs in youth. Even many children in childhood suffer from depression, and some children in junior high school commit suicide. There are many such examples.
Listen to other parents' advice and help. Many problems are caused by parents' lack of ideas, incorrect methods, ignorance of the law of people's growth and lack of timely knowledge of family system education.
The reason, the essence of the problem, is that parents are originals and children are copies. It is precisely because parents don't understand the knowledge of family education that many family education courses are not systematic.
Therefore, when you educate your children, you must know that the parent-child relationship is greater than parenting education.
When you talk to your child and the child doesn't listen, you don't need to talk, you don't need bring disgrace to oneself, you need to repair the parent-child relationship.
Family is a system, and the relationship between husband and wife is greater than that between parents and children.
Husband and wife have a bad relationship, fighting and quarreling at home every day, and parents who are not sensible speak ill of each other in front of their children. It's not good for my father to say that my mother is a bitch and my mother says that my father is a rogue. If it weren't for you, he would have divorced your father. If parents say this, it will do great harm to the child's body and mind.
Because the relationship between children and their parents is the relationship with everything in life. When he grows up, his relationship with his father is a relationship with wealth, and his relationship with his mother is a relationship with marriage. Therefore, family education is too important. Parents should not let their ignorance ruin their children's future.
Come and learn the family system education knowledge of psychological life, and light up the way for you to educate your children.