Su Mu, an ancient celebrity mother education story
Su Shichuan in the History of Song Dynasty recorded such a thing: When Su Shi was in his teens, Mrs. Cheng read him the story in The Biography of Fan Pang in the Later Han Dynasty. Fan Pang was a famous politician in the Eastern Han Dynasty. He is not interested in investigating corrupt officials. As a result, he was framed by traitors and sentenced to death. Before going to the execution ground, he said goodbye to his mother and said, "Mother, I'm sorry. In the future, I will only rely on my younger brother for filial piety, and my father will follow me in my grave. The living and the dead are in their positions. Please give up your unbreakable kindness and don't add to your sadness. " His mother, deeply aware of the great righteousness, said to him, "You can have the name of loyal minister today, so why hate death! Now that you have a good reputation, you must expect longevity and wealth. Can you have both? I support you to give up your life for your ideal. At this time, Su Shi, who was about ten years old, stood up and said excitedly, "Mom, if I want to be like Fan Pang, do you agree?" Mrs Cheng said quietly, "If you can be Fan Pang, can't I be Fan Pang's mother? "
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"Life is full of ups and downs and dangers. Why don't I have a bright moon?"
Looking back at the current social situation, how can mothers educate their children so as not to make people sweat?
Ancient celebrity mother education story Meng Mu
Mencius' name is Monk, and Mencius' mother is Zhang Sansheng. The allusions about Meng Mu mainly include: Meng Mu moved three times and Meng Mu broke the rafters, which are collectively called "choosing neighbors to break the rafters". Meng Mu's three moves changed Mencius' learning environment. Since then, Mencius has been diligent and progressive and has always been a great scholar. In the three-character sutra, "Meng Mu is in the front, choose neighbors; The phrase "no learning, no skill, no loom" was written according to the above legend. In feudal society, Meng Mu was regarded as a model of a good wife and mother.
1, Meng Mu moved three times.
Mencius lived near the grave with his mother when he was a child, and he learned to cry with grave-sweepers sooner or later. Meng Mu was afraid of delaying his son's studies, so he moved to live near the slaughterhouse. Mencius also learned to kill. Meng Mu moved again and lived near Gong Xue. Mencius then learned etiquette and cultural knowledge from the people of Gong Xue. In order to find a good learning environment for his son, Meng Mu moved to his home three times, which became a much-told story for later generations. Meng Mu is the first person in the history of China to see that the environment has a subtle influence on people. Biography of the heroine
2. Buy meat jiaozi
Meng Mu not only attached importance to the influence of objective environment on young Mencius, but also attached great importance to the enlightenment and education of his words and deeds. Buying Meat tells the story of Meng Mu's moral education for Mencius through his words and deeds. Once, a neighbor was sharpening his knife and preparing to kill a pig. Mencius was very curious after seeing it, so he ran to ask his mother, "What are the neighbors doing?" "Kill the pig." "Why kill pigs?" Meng Mu smiled and said casually, "For you." Just after saying this, Meng Mu regretted it, thinking that my neighbor didn't kill pigs for his children, but I lied to him. Isn't this teaching him to lie? To make up for this mistake, Meng Mu really bought his neighbor's pork for Mencius.
3. Loongson Crusher
"Breaking the Machine and Teaching Children" tells the story of Meng Mu encouraging Mencius not to give up halfway. When Mencius was a teenager, he did not study hard at first. On one occasion, when Mencius came home from school, Meng Mu was sitting in front of the machine and weaving. She asked her son, "Can you recite the chapter" Learning "in The Analects of Confucius?" Mencius replied, "I can recite," Meng Mu said happily. "You recite it to me." But Mencius always recited this sentence over and over again: "Confucius said,' Learning is not dangerous, is it? Meng Mu was angry and sad when he heard these words. He raised a knife and hissed at the newly woven cloth, and the twine fell to the ground. Mencius saw his mother cut off the cloth she had worked so hard to weave. He was afraid and didn't understand why. He asked her what had happened. Meng Mu taught his son, "Learning is like weaving. If you don't concentrate on your study, it's like a rag that you can't pick up again. If you study hard from time to time and often review the old and learn new things, you will never learn skills. " Speaking of sadness, Meng Mu sobbed. Mencius was very moved. From then on, he firmly remembered his mother's words, got up early and studied hard. Meng Mu's teaching methods had a great influence on the growth of Mencius and the development of his thoughts. The good environment made Mencius be influenced by etiquette habits for a long time, and cultivated his upright character and tenacious and diligent spirit of studying, which laid a solid and stable foundation for his future research and development of Confucianism.
The educational story of ancient celebrity mothers
Ouyang Xiu 1007- 1072 was a famous writer and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty. Ouyang Xiu's mother is a very thrifty housewife. His father died when he was 4 years old, and he grew up with his widowed mother. Ouyang Xiu's father is a local official, honest and hospitable. When he was alive, his family was large and his economy was well off. After his death, his family gradually became poor, and later there was no room or ridge on the ground. It is conceivable that orphans and widows live in such a situation.
Ouyang Xiu's mother is a strong-willed person. Her family is not poor, and she works hard on her own and raises her children wholeheartedly. When Ouyang Xiu was five or six years old, his mother taught him to read and write, and taught him the truth of being a man. Having no money to buy pens and paper, he used reed poles instead, spread the sand on the ground into paper and taught Ouyang Xiu to write one by one. Ouyang Xiu, who is one year older, is becoming more and more sensible. He is considerate of his mother and tries his best to share the housework while reading. Although Ouyang Xiu is sensible, he doesn't understand how his mother has such great determination and strength to raise herself. On one occasion, Ouyang Xiu asked about it. Mother said affectionately, "After your father died, I was able to be widowed and lonely because I knew your father's noble character. I love him and you, and I am determined to train you to be like your father. For you, I can eat no matter how hard I suffer. " Ouyang Xiu sobbed and said to his mother, "I must carry on my father's legacy and be a noble person." Later, Ouyang Xiu became an official and served as a consultant in political affairs. For three years, Li Qing was demoted for actively supporting Fan Zhongyan and defending the new law. Ouyang Xiu's mother said: "Being demoted for justice cannot be said to be disgraceful. Our family is used to poverty. As long as you have no burden in your heart and keep your spirit, I will be happy. "