Ways to teach children to respect their elders. Resolutely refuse the baby's improper behavior towards the elders.
For example, some babies accidentally hit grandpa's face for the first time, and grandpa pretended to cry to tease him. The baby thought it was a fresh game and slapped him again. In order to coax the crying baby, some parents grabbed the baby's hand and slapped themselves, saying that it was all the mother's fault. Hit mom! ? These methods are not conducive to the establishment of the baby? Human dignity? Parents should resolutely deny the baby's behavior, comfort the baby in other ways, and gradually let the baby feel the idea that people need to be concerned.
2. Incorporate polite expressions of respect for elders into daily life.
For example, after getting up in the morning, if grandparents prepare breakfast, educate the baby to greet the old man politely. Good morning, grandma! ? Thank you, Grandpa! ? Goodbye, grandparents! ? When you are away from home, give your baby a general requirement: whenever and wherever you know your uncle and aunt, you should say it politely? Hello, uncle and aunt! ? At the same time, we should also educate him: if your uncle and aunt don't look in your direction, it may be that he is busy with his own business, so you can stop saying hello; If you say hello at this time, you may disturb your aunt and uncle. This not only exercises the baby's good habit of respecting the elders and being polite, but also cultivates the baby's ability to adjust his behavior flexibly according to the occasion.
3. Talk to your baby about other people's behavior of respecting their elders.
Adults and children have a characteristic, that is, they are good at discovering their own strengths and the weaknesses of others, but not good at discovering their own weaknesses and the strengths of others. This is especially true for the behavior habit of respecting elders, because it is mainly manifested in small things in daily life and is easily overlooked. Parents take their babies out. If they find any good or bad behaviors of other babies, parents can add one or two comments to educate their babies. That baby was very good just now. He knows how to respect his elders. ? I didn't like that baby just now. I can't respect my elders at my age. ? These casual education will have a positive infiltration and influence on the baby. If the whole family sit together and watch TV, they can also consciously evaluate and guide related behaviors.
4. Educate children to understand and care about the situation of their elders.
The elder is in poor health, so it is necessary to educate the baby to learn how to greet, or to do something small, such as bringing a glass of water to remind grandparents to take medicine. Sometimes mom and dad are tired, but the baby is not? Eyes? And ask mom and dad to do this and that, or ask this and that. Mom and dad should clearly tell the baby: I am very tired now and want to have a rest. You should do your own thing and stop calling me all the time. ? It is necessary to put forward such clear requirements for the baby, educate him to learn to observe and understand others, and learn to respect the behavior and habits of the elders in the process of reducing trouble for others.
5. Reduce the arranged substitution behavior in daily life nursing.
Babies need the care and love of adults, but adults can't have too many arranged substitutes. If an adult thinks of everything for the baby and does everything for the baby, he will think that all this is right and will not think that the efforts made by the elders for themselves are worth cherishing and thanking, so it is easy to show disrespect for the elders. For example, some babies don't eat food if they don't like it, and let their families take him out to buy something else. Parents say it's ok today and buy it tomorrow, but the baby doesn't want to. At this time, there are at least two things to educate the baby: on the one hand, you didn't say what you want to eat in advance, and now you come up with an idea temporarily to let mom and dad buy it for you when they are hungry at dinner. Have you considered the needs of others? On the other hand, since the food is ready, you should eat it first, otherwise you will not respect the chef's work.
6. Provide some excellent literary and artistic works for children.
Always relying on preaching sometimes easily causes the baby's disgust. Adults can show their babies related movies, TV, books and articles. Literary works can avoid preaching but can deeply impress people. The development of children's thinking is characterized by the need for vivid storylines to help them understand, digest and strengthen their memories. Therefore, parents can go to the bookstore to consciously collect these contents and provide specific learning resources for their babies.
7. Don't speak ill of other parents in front of the baby.
Babies have no judgment yet. He will follow what others say and do. If you have problems with other parents, don't talk about the baby, let alone say it directly? Instigate? Baby. If the husband comes back late, mommy says to the baby: Dad doesn't have this home in his heart, and he doesn't like the baby. ? Like this? Instinct? It not only stimulates the husband, but also is a bad hint to the baby in the long run. Don't think that the baby doesn't understand, he is a villain, and your tone, eyes and attitude are all conveying real information to him.
Ways to teach children to respect their elders II. The child is small, shallow in knowledge and poor in judgment. In their eyes, their parents' words and deeds are their role models, and the role of role models is enormous. It has a strong attraction and influence on the children of young children and plays a subtle role. Therefore, parents should set an example, be modest and always take the initiative to care when getting along with their elders and others. For example, at home, when eating, you should first serve meals and vegetables to your elders; In public places, take the initiative to give seats to people who are old, sick, disabled, pregnant and holding babies; When you talk to your elders, you should use your respectful name? What about you? ; When dealing with people, you should say? Please. Thank you? Goodbye? Such polite language. In short, children must do what their parents ask them to do first.
Secondly, children's self-control ability is poor, and their behavior is often easily influenced by emotions. They often lose their temper with their elders and are willful and selfish. Parents should promptly guide and help their children to correct, especially? First time? Because temporary accommodation will encourage the formation of children's bad habits in the future, and even affect the formation of children's lifelong personality.
Third, it is also essential to tell children more truth and practice good behavior. Children don't understand and don't want to hear empty truths. Parents should try to use some forms that children like. For example, telling stories, using the good behavior of characters in TV programs and literary works to educate children and set an example for them; From everyday life? Little things? First, when walking, I saw my brothers and sisters fall down and took the initiative to help them; Take children to visit their elders on holidays to enhance their feelings; Delicious to encourage children to invite their elders, brothers and sisters to dinner first; Take the initiative to help others do what they can, clean the table and swing the chair; There are fun toys at home to encourage children to take to kindergarten to share with their peers and so on.
Ways to teach children to respect their elders. Speak less in front of elders.
Dozens of elders have rich experience and qualifications. If you don't know this elder well, don't talk big in front of them, but listen to their opinions.
All the elders in the world love their younger generation. Especially when this elder has high hopes for this child, he is willing to pass on his life experience to you. In this case, if children don't know how to cherish it, parents should tell them, treat it as a classroom, listen carefully and keep it in mind.
This will not only win the love of the elders, but also show their filial piety. Patiently listening to the elders is a sign of filial piety.
Don't look down on your elders.
Some younger generations with certain achievements or ambitions may be a little crazy in front of their unknown elders all their lives, especially when their elders have some bad hobbies.
As parents, we must give our children a good lesson in advance. Tell children that no matter how the elders spend their lives, it is a fortune for the younger generation. The shortcomings of the elders are a place worthy of vigilance for the younger generation and a living teaching material; The advantages of the predecessors are examples for the younger generation to learn and a ladder for progress.
Contact with the elderly more, don't know what the old man said, can relieve your troubles now and make your life less detours.
Don't show off your abilities in front of your elders.
If a child often shows off his ability in front of his elders, it not only exposes his shallowness, but also is not conducive to his growth. At the same time, it is also sending a wrong message to others that you are very capable and don't need other people's help. From then on, the elders may neglect to take care of the children, and the children's mental ability is not mature enough. Losing the care and support of the elders may make the situation worse.
Parents should remind their children to remain modest forever. The more talented people are, the more grateful they should be to their elders for their efforts. With this mentality, elders will always take care of their children, point out their behavioral deficiencies, give them correct support and promote their growth.
In addition, an open-minded child is always grateful and rewarding to his elders. This kind of filial piety is the foundation of moral character formation, which can be transformed into the motive force of struggle and urge children to form bigger and nobler goals.
4. Pay more attention to your elders