Parents should adjust their unrealistic expectations of their children. Every generation has its own characteristics of life and its own inner truth. Parents should not impose their values on their children.
Parents should learn to respect and trust their children. Adolescent children have undergone great changes both psychologically and physically. Children are eager to be recognized by the adult world and to announce to the world that they have grown up through rebellious behavior. At this time, what parents need to do is to support, affirm and trust their children, get along well with them and let them tell their parents what they think.
Parents learn to communicate with their children equally. When we communicate with children, we must communicate with them equally. Only in this way can we truly understand our children.
Parents should change the way of education. When parents get along with adolescent children, they should never confront them. Parents should first change the way of education and give timely encouragement where children do well.
6. Usually reprimand children less, not to mention using violence to control violence; Treat children with praise, praise should be timely, positive and realistic, especially praise children's attitude, not just the result of their actions.
7. Parents should be powerful people in front of their children. It is important to keep your word, and what you do is more important than what you say. Parents are role models for their children. In the process of educating children, don't be superficial. What kind of parents you are, what kind of people your children will become.
Parents should not be weak when educating their children. If a child makes a mistake, don't coax him. Tell him clearly what not to do. Listen to your child's voice while expressing your requirements. If you find that your child has a wrong ideological tendency, correct it in time through heart-to-heart.
9. Parents should adjust their mentality, blame less, be more considerate, be more patient and tolerant. The best way to establish a good relationship with adolescent children is equality and respect. Parents should strive to stand in the same camp with their children and maintain smooth communication between parents and children. Leave a certain space for children, and don't interfere or infringe too much.
10. Try to guide children instead of telling them what to do. Therefore, if he encounters problems and doesn't know what to do, his parents should not "exercise" his thinking ability for him. Listen to your child's inner voice.