According to scientific research, parents should educate themselves if something goes wrong. Low voice education is more effective than high voice education, and it will not destroy the parent-child relationship. Education in a low voice is easier for children to accept, thus improving the original wrong practice.

1. Educate in a low voice, so that children can feel that their parents know how to respect themselves, and they can pay more attention to their parents' thoughts on this matter. On the contrary, as soon as something happens, parents will start swearing, which will scare their children and make them feel frustrated, which will lead to resentment, resistance and even rebellion against their parents, such as running away from home. This kind of education will go against the original intention, and the final result will be counterproductive, and the whole family will fall into a sad situation.

2. Parents can educate in a low voice, and children can let them lay down their defenses, have no resistance, and are willing to talk about their difficulties and ideas like friends. Communication is smooth, and the whole thing will be easier to get better.

3, parents are gentle and easy to infect themselves, the child's personality will also become better, things will be slower, and it is not easy to make mistakes. On the contrary, grumpy parents are more likely to raise grumpy children, and the whole family is grumpy. I wonder what the family atmosphere is like?

So how to carry out low voice education?

1, don't start education as soon as the child enters the door, but let the child sit down and let the child have the warmth of returning home, and then start the topic step by step.

If the child enters the door, the parents will pinch their waist and point to their nose. Does the child dare to go home? Your parent-child relationship will be farther and farther away.

Parents should be calm when things happen.

For example, parents should learn to accept children's unsatisfactory grades. Are children playful? Is it because you don't pay attention to your children, you are busy with your work all day, and you ignore your children? Do you want to find a make-up class for your children during the holidays? Parents calm down and tell their children about it. For example, if your grades are not satisfactory, we should work harder and where we will make progress. Effective communication will make children feel that what their parents say is very reasonable. Why do others get better grades than me? Should I be self-motivated and surpass myself and others in self-esteem, and so on? Children themselves will want to change and improve.

3. Always keep the quality.

Many parents lead impetuous lives, and it is easy to take their anger out on their children and even call names when their work is not smooth. It is said that parents are children's first teachers, so poor quality is easy to affect children, and it is easy for children to look down on their parents and children to look down on you. You can't lead by example, your education of children is naturally unconvincing.