1. It's normal to have differences. Parents should know how to seek common ground while reserving differences. First of all, we must understand that it is very normal for parents to disagree on the issue of educating their children. Our parents should accept this phenomenon. What should be done after disagreement is to "seek common ground while reserving differences", that is, to extract the places where both sides have the same opinions and form a way acceptable to both sides, and then choose a person to take the lead in children's education. The most important thing in this process is that we adults should solve our own problems. It is very important for children's education to form a unified thought through communication between parents.

2. Disagreement itself is an opinion. If parents can't form a unified opinion after communication, we shouldn't panic, because disagreement is an opinion in itself. Children's growth will be influenced by many external environments, and children have their own ideas. The road we point out to children may not be suitable for children. At this time, we might as well let the children choose their own path. When parents can't reach an agreement, it is a good educational idea to respect children's own choices.