In China, children are the treasure of the family, which greatly protects their personal safety. However, on buses and trains in Japan, children can often be seen shuttling between carriages looking for empty seats, and then children have to prepare their own things and carry their own things. As long as they have the ability to act on their own, by the age of five or six or seven or eight, parents will cultivate their individual independence. Of course, this ruthless education has also achieved great results. Their children's ability to survive independently is indeed much stronger than those trained by our doting education.
Encouraging children to farm by themselves is to let them know that food is hard to come by. It is not easy for children to prepare their own tableware in the canteen and clean up their own tableware to let them know about life and let them cooperate with each other to collect bottles. More importantly, let them cultivate the sense of responsibility of the team. In fact, this ruthless education should arouse our deep thinking. Are we too fond of children's education? Many children end up with excellent academic performance, but they don't have the most basic living ability. What is even more unimaginable is that they can't even go out by themselves, so it is really a big problem for such educated children.
I think this heartless education can be used for reference in China, and some steps can be recommended step by step. Because a child who indulges in education will never embark on his own independent road, he can't even do the most basic washing and sewing when he goes to college, and he can't do anything except study. Even if he graduates, he won't make much contribution to society, because he can't even take care of himself, let alone others.