At first, the author Li Yueer attracted me most. She is a famous expert in children's education and the founder of Li Yueer Ba Academy. She happened to be reading the book "Little Peas by the Window" recently, which is based on Ba Xueyuan, so she has a strong desire to read.

When I borrow books at noon, I stay on the sofa and continue reading. The thickness of this book is ok. I like reading this kind of books with moderate spacing. In the form of a novel, this book tells the parents' concerns about children in kindergarten through a mother's narrative and experience. After each chapter, there are intimate words written by Li Yueer to his parents. This form is particularly easy for readers to have a desire to read. The book consists of seven chapters, from how old the baby goes to kindergarten, how to choose a kindergarten, preparation for entering the park, kindergarten matters, interest classes and so on. Basically, parents want to know. In addition, the owner, Gong Wenna, has a strong desire for self-growth like our mother in the new era. The previous chapters, because they have experienced joys and sorrows, seem to look back on the road they have traveled. In the following chapters, there are many issues that I am concerned about:

First, the problem of eating.

Huanhuan has been reluctant to have breakfast in kindergarten. It is estimated that one is that she still wants her grandmother to feed her, and the other is that her cooking is so delicious.

It is mentioned in the book that if children eat too well at home, they will improve their taste and feel that the kindergarten food is not delicious. If you want your baby to adapt to the harsh living environment quickly when he grows up, you should let the child discover the pleasure of spiritual enjoyment from an early age, instead of directing too much attention to material enjoyment, because spiritual enjoyment is controllable, and its feelings come from the child's own positioning, and whether it is pleasant or not mainly comes from non-material factors.

The idea of Huanhuan kindergarten teacher is exactly the same, and children should be encouraged to eat with children in kindergarten.

Second, how can parents help their children when they are in trouble?

I realized this before, but I still didn't stick to it enough. I always help my child solve many problems that should be solved by himself, depriving him of the opportunity to practice.

The book says: children encounter difficulties in life, if adults don't solve them for him at the first time, he will find a way to solve them himself. This is how children's abilities grow. Only when human beings solve their own problems can they truly gain physical and mental freedom.

Third, the choice of toys.

I am always keen on buying all kinds of toys for my children. At first, it was a car model, then it was the kind of assembling toys and building blocks, and now I buy more books. I really realize that too many toys will only distract children.

The book says it is not good to have too many toys. With more toys, children will change their minds. After playing this and that, they can't explore the possibility of a toy. Try not to disturb the children while they are playing. Sometimes, boredom is also a learning process. Humans need to experience boredom.

Fourth, the confusion of interest classes.

Huanhuan has not participated in any interest classes so far. Grandma thinks we are delaying the children. My father and I have the same opinion, so that children can find interest and develop on the basis of playing well.

The book says there is nothing wrong with letting children experience interest classes. When the children are four years old, they can take them to experience it. You won't know anything until you learn it, but you must find a professional teacher who understands children. Remember not to impose children on those destructive teachers.

Fifth, behavior problems.

During the summer vacation, I often get angry with Huanhuan. I know it's wrong, but I can't control myself. Huanhuan also felt my dissatisfaction and constantly challenged me. I feel like a failure, like a growling mother.

The book says: When parents are dissatisfied with their children, children will feel their parents' dissatisfaction and think that their parents are definitely right. In this way, children will think that they are really dissatisfied with their parents. In order to prove that their parents are right and wrong, they will do many things that make their parents more unbearable. This is the so-called behavior problem.

Sixth, the confusion in parenting.

In the process of raising children, I have the enthusiasm and motivation for self-growth, but I often feel helpless in the face of difficulties and confusion.

The words in the book are really good: people who create beautiful things need to delay satisfaction, that is, they yearn for that beautiful result and face all kinds of unhappiness. We should make more efforts and energy to infect people around us, create an atmosphere with us, and work together with us to make beautiful products.

Seven, young convergence

This problem is still a little far from Huanhuan, but as an educator, the views in the book are agreed. It is not important to prepare for school. It is not important to learn Olympic Mathematics. The most important thing is to cultivate good habits, enthusiasm for learning and ability to adapt to learning life. Children who grow up in a caring and respectful environment have the ability to make themselves happy and find their own position and direction in life in any future environment. Stretch the child's strengths and the child will have confidence in himself. The relaxed heart of parents is the most important step for children to grow up. Parents must really help their children adapt to the school, help them understand the content of the course, and support them to complete the teacher's homework. Children will become richer and more mature after experiencing the joy, anger and joy in the early life.

After reading this book in one breath, I gained a lot and felt a sense of accomplishment.