1, control emotions, communicate well, and don't beat and scold;

Children don't want to go to school. As parents, you will be angry, but you still have to control your anger. You know, beating and cursing can't solve the fundamental problem, it will only make children more rebellious. What we have to do is to have a good talk with our children, find out why they don't go to school, and see if they have any conditions and requirements.

2. Understand children's stress:

When children don't go to school, parents can't just care about their dignity or face, thinking that children don't go to school and make them feel ashamed. In fact, they should think more about their children. Children who don't go to school are also under great psychological pressure. They won't encounter anything particularly big, or they really can't stand it, and they won't do such behavior. They still have to think about the problem from the perspective of children, so that the problem can be easily solved.

3, don't rush to solve the problem:

Children don't go to school As parents, they are anxious, but don't rush to solve this problem. When the children are emotionally stable, talk to them and ask them why they don't go to school, and then make a decision based on the reasons. Children can't go to school. Parents will immediately scold their children, scold their children and force them to go to school. Parents should keep calm, catch a cold for a few days, and don't ask about their children. They should take good care of their children, and let them psychologically first.

4, according to the reason to solve the problems encountered by children:

There is a reason why children don't go to school. Parents should communicate with their children according to their reasons for not going to school and help them solve problems. If children are under great learning pressure and can't keep up with classes, parents can communicate with teachers to reduce their learning pressure. If they are bullied at school and dare not go, we should also solve them and eliminate their psychological worries and anxieties.

5. Communicate with your child's teacher:

If the child is introverted and doesn't communicate with himself or tell himself why he doesn't want to go to school, parents can contact the child's teacher to ask about his recent performance in school and the reasons for not going to school, and cooperate with the teacher to solve the problem of his not going to school.

6. Let the children's good friends do the children's work;

When children are old enough to go to school, not going to school is not the way. Parents have no choice but to let their children's good friends do their children's work. There are still common topics for children to talk about, so that children can understand their parents' pains and be considerate of their parents. Don't be too headstrong, it should have a certain effect.

7. Have a rest at home:

Children really don't want to go to school. They are particularly tired of learning. If there is no way, they can rest at home for a while. If they are alone at home all day, they will feel bored. They will, according to their age, let their children go out to work with them, eat a little bitter, get tired, and let their children realize that life is not easy. Children will go to school as soon as they think of a good school.