At that time, the Central Plains culture was developed, and the Central Plains people thought that the Chu people were still in ignorance. Even Emperor Zhou took the lead in taking advantage of words, mocking the Chu people as birds, saying that their words were not only as difficult to understand as birds, but also as backward as birds.
But the Chu people don't want to talk fast. They took care of their country wholeheartedly under the leadership of Chu army.
In order to make the State of Chu strong, Chu Jun often wore tattered clothes and sat on a chariot made of Vitex negundo, leading his subjects to cross mountains and rivers, explore territory and share weal and woe.
In this way, after decades of efforts, Chu gradually developed and expanded, from a small feudal country to a powerful vassal state, so that it gradually developed into a country that the vassal States of the Central Plains could not underestimate.
Later, in the era of Chu Zhuangwang, it became the overlord of the vassal states.
From scratch, from small to large, this is the law of the development of all things in the world.
When I was writing History of Chu, I suddenly remembered reading Mr. nan huaijin's book, as if Cantonese was the descendants of Chu people, and Cantonese spoken by Cantonese was the language of Chu people.
Think of a short video I saw, and let people everywhere imitate Cantonese and say "every country has its own national anthem".
At that time, my son and I imitated it together, and it really sounded like a bird. The funny tone made us both laugh.
However, regardless of the tone of voice, Guangdong is now a fairly developed place in China, and even Cantonese was deeply loved by people for a while because of the popularity of Hong Kong films.
What does this mean?
Explain that "heroes don't ask the source", as long as you are strong enough and excellent enough, no matter how humble your background is, no one dares to underestimate you as long as you are strong enough.
The experience of a country is like this, and a person who wants to get rid of his humble fate has to go through the same process.
That is to say, constantly urging yourself to become better and make yourself better is a road to success.
The same is true of educating children, that is, no matter whether the child is good or not, you can't give up the idea of making him better.
In other words, don't just measure a child's performance, but help him become a better person in all aspects.
Only when a person develops in a truly balanced way can he truly become a useful person.
There is a misunderstanding in current education, that is, judging whether a child is good or not must be the first. In fact, if we look at many young people now, no matter whether their grades are good or not, you will find a problem. Many people don't even have the ability to maintain a normal and harmonious family.
Therefore, it is now being proved that many of the education taught 30 years ago were isolated and defeated, only seeking self-reliance, and no one succeeded.
This reminds us that children must develop in an all-round way. It is very important to study well, but it is more important to be hardworking, simple, tolerant and helpful.
Only when you have the ability to contribute to others, and also have the heart to contribute to others, can you, like the earliest Chu Jun in Chu, work with your subjects hopefully and lay a solid foundation for the strength of Chu step by step, although life is hard. 、
It's just that in reality, probably because of urbanization, people's living space is getting smaller and smaller, there are fewer and fewer children, and there are probably no more things for children to take on at home, or parents are unwilling to let their children do more things, so children can only spend the rest of their time on the Internet besides studying hard in their academic performance.
Then in another 30 years, what kind of life will those children who can only learn from childhood and play online games in their spare time face?
Nowadays, many young people often eat unhealthy greasy and salty take-away food outside because they can't cook or don't like cooking.
Facts are also proving that many diseases are getting younger and younger. Isn't this the result of not cultivating the ability to live since childhood?
Just as I was writing this article, a friend my husband knew called and told me all kinds of misfortunes.
He said that he was divorced, had children, his parents died and was in poor health. He is buying medicines in bulk.
The important thing is that he said a key message. He said he wanted to recuperate, but no one cooked for him, and he couldn't do it, and he didn't want to exercise to recuperate.
He lies in bed every day, or plays with his mobile phone on the sofa, and then places his hopes on taking medicine, hoping that those medicines will make him better.
I deeply sympathize with the experience of Mr. Wang's friend. I introduced him to a diet prescription to recuperate his body. Husband encourages him to do some gentle exercise, which can also help him to recuperate as soon as possible.
However, a friend whose outlook on life has solidified repeatedly stressed on the phone that he is very difficult and nobody takes care of him. He has no choice but to suffer.
People in their thirties may be almost forty, but they are still not fully responsible for their own lives, and they still pin their hopes on the care of others. What can we say?
In the face of such a friend, we can only watch him suffer and give him no help at all.
Seeing this friend's pain, I was thinking how important it is to cultivate children's self-care ability from an early age!
Let children slowly learn to take full responsibility for their own lives, which is the performance of truly loving children.
Otherwise, you won't let him do anything, and in the end, his parents will be gone. Will the child still have a good life?
Children can have a stable and healthy future, which should be the wish of most parents, but this wish cannot be separated from the cultivation of all-round and balanced development from childhood.