"It is difficult for children to get up, don't go"; "It's all fun anyway, and it doesn't matter if you can't go to kindergarten"; If the child doesn't want to go, stay at home. It is natural for many parents to ask for leave, but sending their children to the park intermittently may do more harm to their children than you think.

1, which is not conducive to children's communication.

Children, like adults, have their own interpersonal circles and their own ways of emotional communication. In kindergarten, children play and play games together, gradually learn to respect others in the game, and then make more friends, learn to share in laughter, and understand tolerance in contradictions. ......

If you often ask for leave from your child, it will affect the development of your child's social skills. After asking for leave many times, you will find that children's good friends are gradually becoming less and less; The child became less fond of laughing, which is why he became lonely.

On the other hand, they will have a sense of strangeness and distance to the teacher because of the lack of opportunities to communicate with the teacher, which is not conducive to the teacher to understand and take care of the children more carefully.

2. Break the coherence of learning.

Children's knowledge learning and habit formation in kindergarten is an interlocking and gradual process. After entering the park, teachers will formulate clear behavioral requirements according to the laws of children's physical and mental development, guide them to achieve one small goal after another, and finally achieve the big goal of healthy and happy growth.

Asking children for leave often will not only destroy the coherence of their knowledge learning, but also encourage their inertia and make their good habits in kindergarten "fall short". After asking for leave many times, you may find that your child gradually loses interest in learning and even doesn't want to go to kindergarten more and more. That's because he can't keep up with other children at work.

3. It is not conducive to the healthy development of children's body and mind.

"The child is in poor health and uncomfortable" is the most common reason why many parents, especially the elderly, take time off for their children. In fact, regular outdoor activities in kindergartens are important measures to enhance physical fitness and prevent diseases, rather than staying in a "vacuum environment". Often taking children outside to breathe fresh air can make children adjust themselves to the external cold and hot changes in the process of feeling the temperature change, thus enhancing their immunity.

Children who stay at home on vacation seem to be better protected, but because the energy in the body is not released, they are prone to loss of appetite, poor sleep quality, and the chances of getting sick are actually higher, which is very unfavorable to the healthy development of children.

4. It is not conducive to the development of good habits.

We know that good habits need to be cultivated from an early age. Kindergarten is an excellent place to cultivate children's good habits.

Teachers will adjust the schedule of kindergartens according to the changes of seasons, so that children can have a good schedule; According to the age characteristics of children, give appropriate meal time and develop good habits of eating independently and chewing slowly; Under the guidance of teachers, learn to care for others and be kind to others. ......

However, all this will be broken after children often take time off. After asking for leave many times, you will find that all the good habits you have developed are gone. ......

5. It is not conducive to the cultivation of persistent quality.

Kindergarten is the golden age for shaping children's character, and the habits formed at this time will be deeply branded in children's hearts and accompanied by their life-long development.

The child was a little sick yesterday, so you asked for leave. Today, the child is in a bad mood, and you ask for leave from the child; Someone at home will have a birthday tomorrow, so you have to ask for leave ... Maybe you don't feel anything wrong, because these are "small things".

However, have you found that you are sending such a "secret code" to your children: going to kindergarten is such a random thing. On the one hand, we expect children to be persistent people; On the other hand, we constantly find good reasons for children not to insist. How can this make children have the valuable qualities of perseverance?

6, aggravate the child's separation anxiety

If you take frequent leave for your child, it will only make your child more and more exclusive to kindergarten, thinking that kindergarten is not as good as home, and at the same time, children are more dependent on their parents, which will aggravate their separation anxiety and is not conducive to their developing independent habits!

In order to make children grow up healthily and have a happy kindergarten life, parents are requested to reduce unnecessary leave. Don't be an obstacle to your child's growth because you care about your child. In fact, children are stronger and braver than you think! Cultivating good living habits and personality from an early age is the greatest care for children!

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