First of all, listen to the child's explanation and give the child a chance to state. Don't deprive children of the right to speak, let them say what they want to say, so that parents will have a more comprehensive and clear understanding of their children's mistakes, and their criticism will be more targeted, and their children will be able to accept their criticism more convincingly.
Secondly, set an example and practice. Parents are the children's first teachers. Is the object of children's worship and imitation. It is an important source of influencing children's behavior habits. Their attitudes and moral concepts have a profound influence on them. Only by setting an example for children can we play our unique educational role for their healthy growth.
Finally, creativity is awesome. Now our parents realize the importance of appreciating success. Always praise your child and say "really good" and "well done". We need to praise them when they make progress in a certain aspect. When we praise them, we can clearly point out what they appreciate most.
Because our concept of educating children is limited, there are still blind spots in education. I hope that through this exchange, we can get some useful help, learn some good methods and provide us with more help. Finally, I wish all teachers success in their work, happy parents' lives and happy and healthy children every day.
1. Love and respect children
Being intimate friends in children's life, treating children equally, establishing a relationship of mutual trust with children and being intimate friends with children are the only way to win children's trust. Giving children naughty smiles and persuasion again and again will make children naturally feel the love given by their parents and enhance their trust in their parents, so parents should use love to cultivate their good behavior habits.
2. Good communication between parents and children
Parents should learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. When he expresses his views on things, I will also respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence, which is very important for cultivating children's character. Listening is an art as well as a learning.
Parents should set a good example for their children.
Family education is the enlightenment education for each of us and lays the foundation for our lifelong growth. Therefore, we should create a scientific and happy growth space for children. We shouldn't bring the troubles and unhappiness at work to our children at home. We shouldn't promise what children can't do at will, and cultivate children's honesty and trustworthiness from an early age.
Encourage children
Come on! Don't lose heart, try again, what you have done is great! I'm happy for you. I often give such encouragement to children, and they will move forward with our encouragement. I often encourage them to participate in school group activities to arouse their interest and find and solve problems in time. We have given them a lot of encouragement and appreciation in many aspects of their study and life. Such a child is very confident, and rarely does he have such a positive idea.
In a word, we should work together to educate our children in an effective way.