First of all, our parents should study more and read more books to set a good example for their children.

The influence of family atmosphere on children is intangible. Confucius said in his family precepts: "Coexistence with goodness is like entering Lan Zhi's room. If you don't smell its fragrance for a long time, you will blend in with it. Living with evil is like entering the land of abalone. If you don't smell it for a long time, you will blend in with it. If Dan hides it as red and lacquer hides it as black, a gentleman must be careful where he goes. "

It can be seen that the environment has a great influence on the growth of children. The stories of the three major movements in ancient Meng Mu also emphasized the role of environment in children's growth. In the lecture, Mr. Wang Jinzhan also emphasized that family status, learning environment and harmonious relationship between parents will have an impact on children.

Imagine a child who is intoxicated with the scholarly atmosphere in the family environment every day, a child who is scolded by his parents all day or whose parents are constantly playing mahjong. Their learning status will definitely be very different.

Not only the learning state is different, but also the children's personality, value orientation and interpersonal communication will be affected in different ways. Children can't choose a family, but parents have the responsibility to create an environment conducive to their children's growth.

Secondly, we should explore the advantages of children and praise them without hesitation. Good children are boasted, and now many educators are emphasizing appreciation education.

Appreciation can enhance children's self-confidence, stimulate their motivation to learn, improve their positioning, and cultivate an excellent child with sound personality, mental health, sunny optimism, positive and all-round development. As long as we love children correctly and are good at discovering advantages, every child is an angel and the pride of parents.

We parents all hope that our children will become talents and have a good life in the future. In order to achieve this goal, our parents must be boosters for their children's growth, not stumbling blocks.

So, let's create a relaxed and harmonious family environment for our children, set up an image of parents who love to study and work hard for their children, and form a positive and optimistic attitude towards life in a subtle way!