1, exercise children's life skills
It is the responsibility of parents that children can't do housework. We didn't give the children a chance to exercise. Let children do proper housework every day, from simple to complex, and slowly exercise their skills, and they will soon learn.
2. Cultivate children's sense of family responsibility.
Children are also family members and have the obligation and right to learn and share family responsibilities. Insist on letting children complete certain housework, so that children feel that they are also a member of the family and have the obligation and responsibility to take care of other members of the family.
3. Give children a sense of accomplishment
It is a great sense of accomplishment for children to finish a housework. I feel that I have finished a task by myself.
4. Establish happiness and confidence in life.
If children can get praise from their parents, they will be very happy and will complete the task by themselves. They feel that they can do it, and they will have more confidence in life.
Step 5 share family harmony
If parents can finish a complicated housework with their children on weekends or other free time and teach them how to do it, families will have more opportunities for communication, children's abilities will be exercised and families will be happy.
6. Let children know happiness and hard work.
When parents come home from work, there is no need to tell their children how hard they are. You must study hard. This will make children feel that labor is very hard and you don't want to work. You should tell your child what you have accomplished today and your sense of accomplishment. In this way, children will feel happy at work, love work more, work more happily, and are not afraid of hardship.
To educate children to do more housework, we must do the following three things:
First of all, the purpose should be clear. The purpose of letting children do housework is not simply to do one thing, such as how to tidy the room, clean the room and take out the garbage. Instead, cultivate children's sense of responsibility, self-esteem, self-confidence and the ability to live independently. Parents should not regard letting their children do housework as dispensable. Children will do it if they are interested, but they won't do it if they don't want to. This is not good. Do some housework as a routine "work" for children, persevere and don't give up halfway.
Secondly, we should start education at an early age. Almost from the moment he was able to go to the fields, the child had a strong desire to help his mother. Two-year-old children can do some housework and are willing to help their mothers. Therefore, parents should pay attention to guidance from the age of two. At first, children can take cleaning as an entertainment activity and gradually form a habit. Never stop or prevent children from participating because they are not doing well, so as not to dampen their budding enthusiasm for work. Parents can accompany their children to do some housework and teach them some labor skills and principles. Let children do housework step by step as they grow older, and don't rush to make children proud of things beyond their ability. Parents should not tell their children what to do when they are doing housework. Even if doing housework damages something, don't point fingers, just remind you to pay attention next time. However, children must be praised in time for their progress.
Third, don't use ella to coax children to do housework, but let them turn housework into a voluntary action. Using money to supplement things may play a temporary role, but it will not last long, and it is not conducive to cultivating children's good habits. The best reward for children's labor is to praise, hug, kiss or say thank you in front of others.