Rebellion is an important stage of adolescent children's psychological development, which refers to a conflict between children and the external environment driven by independent consciousness and self-consciousness.
Children in rebellious period usually become disobedient, and at the same time, they are emotionally unstable, impulsive, willful and self-conscious. Children in the rebellious period will also vent their emotions through some extreme behaviors, and even do some extreme behaviors to hurt others if they are not satisfied.
For the above situation, parents should be patient, understand and respect their children's ideas, which can help children overcome rebellious psychology. At the same time, we should communicate with children more, understand their inner thoughts and help them establish a correct outlook on life and values. Don't blindly educate children with violence, so as not to cause physical and mental harm to children.
Parents are advised to pay more attention to their children's mental health and communicate with them.
Treat rebellious children aged 8 to 9 with psychological counseling. 9-year-old children began to form their own consciousness gradually, but they are still in a relatively ignorant stage, obviously emotional and one-sided. Parents should have enough patience, don't completely exclude their children, and don't let them go their own way.
We should correctly guide and gradually establish a correct outlook on life and values. When children express wrong ideas, they can gradually correct them, guide them correctly and establish a correct direction of personality development.
Learn to tolerate. Parental tolerance can alleviate more bad emotions of children. 9-year-old children are not disobedient, but they just can't control their emotions, so children need tolerance and guidance from their parents. When a child is disobedient or rebellious, parents should understand the characteristics of the child's age, tolerate the child's out of control, and guide the child to correctly handle difficulties and setbacks through communication.
When parents can listen attentively, children will be willing to communicate with their parents, and children will be able to open their hearts to their parents and let them know themselves. Only in this way can children get help from their parents, learn to release bad temper and be less rebellious.