Children's love of comparison and vanity are mostly influenced by adults, especially the value orientation of parents, which is an important reason for the formation of children's comparison psychology. If parents are vain and love to compare, then children are easily influenced by their parents' words and deeds.
Step 2 praise children correctly
Parents should encourage their children to be more confident. Don't always compare the advantages of other people's children with children. The source of children's self-confidence is mainly the recognition of parents. Then parents should remind themselves to pay more attention to their children's little progress and use less negative comparisons. In particular, don't always compare your child's weaknesses with the strengths of other children.
3. Parents should guide their children to compare in positive places, such as study, conduct and skills. Never let your children develop in the direction of pursuing material and bad behavior; Secondly, parents should encourage their children to win others through personal efforts in an appropriate way.
Parents hope that their children will not spend money indiscriminately, and let them know that it is not easy for parents to make money first!
Because children have no concept of money, they only know that money can be bought, but they don't know how to earn it back. If conditions permit, you can take your children to your workplace for a day to show them what their parents are like at work. Let children know that parents need to work hard to make money, and money is hard to come by.
Secondly, parents lead by example, do not compare, do not waste, do not spend money indiscriminately!
Some parents complain that their children spend money recklessly, but not recklessly. If something at home is a little bad, throw it away and buy a new one if you don't like it. When you see other people's things, you should have them yourself or buy a bunch of useless things at home. Parents' consumption view will seriously affect children, and children can learn from their eyes. Parents must pay attention to this!