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There are many disadvantages in intergenerational education! What should I pay attention to when living with the elderly?
When parents are old, it is inevitable that children will live with their parents. However, in the process of living together, parents often have some differences with young people in the concept of educating their children. Old people will spoil their children more because their parents are separated, which makes young parents very headache. Therefore, separated education has many disadvantages. What should we pay attention to when living with the elderly?

1. Pay attention to establishing a person in charge of educating children.

Living with the elderly, in fact, in the face of children's education problems, the elderly often intervene and think that young people are too strict with their children. They break some rules set by their parents and make children often become more willful in these doting. Therefore, when living with the elderly, parents must pay attention, talk to the elderly well, and have a person in charge to educate their children, and the role of this person in charge is best assumed by the mother, because the mother is a better communicator. It is also more conducive to the stability of the family and will be more conducive to the education and growth of children.

2. Pay attention to respecting the elderly

Although there are many educational ideas of the older generation that we don't agree with now, we have to admit that the elderly are also wise when educating their children. In order for the elderly to respect the educational concept of young people, we must first respect the educational concept of the elderly. After all, respect is based on mutual respect, so it is also a good choice to listen to the opinions of the older generation occasionally, which is also more conducive to family harmony.

3. Note that a parameter is not a parameter.

Living together will inevitably lead to some unhappy problems in educating children, but with unhappy problems, everyone can put forward their own views and opinions. It is necessary to argue. But in the process of arguing, we must not rise to other things, otherwise the argument will become a quarrel. This not only hurts the old man's heart, but also makes the young man angry, and it is also very uncomfortable for the child to be caught in the middle. So what do you think? Let's discuss it together and finally sum up a way that is really acceptable to both sides. Never have excessive verbal behavior.