Because it is the experience gained by talented people. As the saying goes, "Men are afraid of three heads and women are afraid of taking big steps", which describes the ancient way of educating children. In ancient times, men could not be timid and women could not be rude. This is an ancient way of life, but now men are not afraid to point three heads. I love my wife or girlfriends, and women are not afraid to stride, which shows that this woman is straightforward and cool.

Without such experience and background, we naturally can't reach the goal summarized by the ancients, but we can learn to change and change this phenomenon, so as to make society progress. Instead of blindly following the summary of the ancients and sticking to the end, after all, each era has its own life background.

As the old saying goes, "Men are afraid of counting three heads, while women are afraid of striding" refers to: Men have no opinion and are right for everyone, while women's fear of striding refers to women's striding, which is unsightly and has an arrogant momentum, which does not conform to ancient etiquette and makes people hate to see such walking.

This also confirms that ancient feudal thoughts were not open in modern times. Now, "men are not afraid to nod three times, women are not afraid to stride", which shows that the progress of the times, although we can not reach the position summarized by the ancients, can surprise the ancients scientifically.

Now a man nods his head three times in front of his girlfriend to show his love for his girlfriend, and nods his head three times to show his approval to the leader. Facts have proved that not everything needs to be independent, and sometimes it is a good thing to order three heads. Today's women may be regarded as affectation if they don't stride. After all, everyone is so busy, but women don't stride, but they will waste time.

Therefore, the different background of the times is naturally not as good as that summarized by the ancients, but we can summarize the lifestyle of modern people and record the thoughts between men and women of each generation.