Nowadays, more and more parents choose to let their children board rather than go to school, because they are too busy at work to take care of their children. Moreover, if children are proficient in school, they can save a lot of time and exercise their abilities.

But in fact, these ideas are just their own ideas. Whether children should board or not should be based on their wishes.

Xiao Wang and her husband are usually very busy at work, so they have to travel frequently and have no time to take care of their children. The child went to junior high school and knew that he could board, so he applied. Xiao Wang believes that letting children adapt to boarding life early can also exercise their social skills and exercise their independence.

Moreover, it can save the journey from home to school and let children recite more words. Xiao Wang's idea is very good, but he didn't consider whether the children would like it or not. As a result, the child is now in high school, but the relationship between Xiao Wang and the child is getting worse and worse.

Usually, even if you don't go to school and stay at home, the children and Xiao Wang say no more than three sentences. Usually, the contact of mobile phone WeChat is also very short. At this time, Xiao Wang realized that although she saved a lot of time by sending her children to boarding, it did affect the parent-child relationship.

On the question of whether children should be boarding, Bai said in an interview with the media that even if he was killed, he would never let his children live on campus.

He will have the idea that it is the responsibility of every parent to educate and take care of their children when they are born. In fact, this behavior of parents letting their children live on campus is actually shirking the responsibility of educating their children in disguise.

1, can exercise children's ability.

If children live at home, many problems in daily life will be solved by parents, but if they are boarding, these problems need to be solved by their own children. Therefore, some parents want to send their children to live in school because they want to cultivate their independence.

Step 2 save time on the road

Time is precious, especially those children in grade three or grade three. Not every family lives next to the school. Therefore, in order to save more time for children, parents will choose to let their children board.

Although sending children to boarding does have many advantages, from another perspective, it will also have great disadvantages.

1, which is not conducive to parent-child relationship.

The parent-child relationship between children and parents itself takes time to maintain. Parents can get to know each other in the process of getting along with children. Staying with parents often will also make children feel more secure, but now many parents send their children to live on campus for work and other reasons.

Although it is ostensibly to make children more independent and cultivate their independence, in fact, in this process, children will become more and more unfamiliar with their parents.

2. There may be school bullying.

The word bullying on campus should be often heard by most people. As children grow older, they will not take the initiative to tell their parents after being bullied outside. If they send their children to boarding, parents can't know their children's situation every day. Therefore, at this time, children may leave the shadow of being bullied by the campus for life, and the problem has not been solved.

Boarding and day school have their own advantages. For practical reasons, there are indeed many parents who have no choice.

1, cultivate children's social skills

A very important ability in collective life is to socialize with others.

There are many children whose conflicts with roommates and classmates have affected their personality development and mood at the same time. Therefore, parents must tell their children the skills of getting along with others before they live in school, so that children can get along with others better in the process of accommodation.

2. Pay more attention to children's changes

Because children can't observe their emotions every day after they check in, parents must spend more time communicating with their children at this time, and they can often talk to their children on the phone. If there is something wrong with the child's tone, be sure to ask in time and help the child solve it. Only when parents do this can children feel safe enough.

? 3. Teach children life skills

After leaving my parents, I have many basic life problems to solve by myself. In order to prevent children from knowing nothing and nothing, parents must teach their children some basic life skills in advance before sending them to live in school.