At present, most young couples ask their grandparents to help take care of their children because of their busy work. However, in the process of raising children, most elders will have conflicts with their parents in the process of educating children. When there is a contradiction, we might as well solve it from the following aspects.

One is mutual understanding. No elder doesn't love his grandchildren, so their love for their children as parents is beyond doubt. Your starting point is for the good of your children. Sometimes, just different ways and means of love will lead to conflicts between you. Therefore, when the concept of educating children is different, as parents of children, you must not complain and blame your elders, but understand them more, because it is not easy for them to help you with your children themselves. If you don't understand them, it will make them chilling. Therefore, when you have conflicts in educating your children, you might as well sit together and have a good communication and talk about your inner thoughts and educational ideas. When you talk about the problem, the two sides will put themselves in their shoes and understand each other, and the contradiction will naturally disappear.

The second is to be grateful to parents. The child is yours, so it is inappropriate and unnecessary for the elders to help you take care of the child. In the process of caring for children by elders, if there are conceptual conflicts, children's parents must restrain their emotions, calmly exchange modern parenting knowledge with elders, and at the same time express their gratitude to elders for helping you take care of children. For example, if a child is always crying, his grandparents will coax him and promise him all unreasonable demands. As parents of children, they don't like this kind of education, but parents shouldn't blame their elders and children. But cleverly said to the elders:? Thank your parents for their help. You have worked hard. I hope to train our children to be independent people. For example, when he encounters a problem, he tries to find a way for himself at the first time, instead of relying on others. If parents help him, the child will get used to crying to solve the problem, which will lead to his dependence. When he grows up, he may be more frustrated when he enters the society. If we let him get into the habit of finding his own way at home now, will he have strong autonomy in the future? This is not only a respect for elders, but also a disguised way to convey educational methods to elders.

Therefore, when there is a conflict with the elders in the process of educating children, we should give them more understanding and gratitude.