In learning, we tell our children through textbook knowledge that only by laying a good foundation can we learn the following knowledge. We all know that houses are made of bricks, and bricks are the foundation of houses. And knowledge, like building a house, can only be used flexibly step by step. Children's first contact with Chinese is Pinyin. Only by learning pinyin well can he study hard and read stories well. And he knows that only by learning well can he read stories well when his mother or father is away.
Psychologically, let children know that they are an independent individual. Many children are dependent. If they can't do things by themselves, they habitually rely on their elders. In terms of dependence, I think some can be obtained, such as the sense of security and justice of the elders, and some can't be obtained. For example, a child can buy a limited number of toys. If you agree, he will feel that he can ask an adult for anything he wants! So let the children know that they are an independent individual, and some things need to be obtained by themselves.
Parents need to guide him in life, instead of telling him the result directly: you can't. What parents lack for their children is patience. Although children may make you get high blood pressure when you do your homework, you should know that children are your own. Hahaha ~ I can only comfort myself: biology, biology! When you go through a difficult period, you will find that your children will solve the problem alone and you can do your own thing!