1. Spoiling or over-discipline: Spoiling may lead to children's lack of independence and sense of responsibility, while over-discipline may lead to children's rebellious mentality.

2. Lack of communication and understanding: The lack of effective communication and understanding between parents and children may cause children to be unable to seek help and support when facing problems.

3. Expectation is too high: Parents' expectation of their children is too high, which may make their children bear great psychological pressure, leading to psychological problems such as anxiety and depression.

4. Ignoring children's interests and specialties: In the process of education, parents may ignore children's interests and specialties and force their children to learn things they don't like, which will affect their growth and development.

5. Comparison and comparison: Parents often compare and compare in front of their children, which may lead to inferiority and jealousy.

6. Lack of role models: Parents are role models for their children. If parents have their own problems, it may affect their children's growth.

7. Single educational model: Parents' educational model may be too single, focusing only on academic performance and neglecting the cultivation of children's morality, interests and social skills.

8. Too much intervention in children's lives: Parents' too much intervention in children's lives may lead to children's lack of independent thinking and problem-solving ability.

9. Lack of patience and care: In the process of children's growth, parents may lack patience and care because of busy work and other reasons, making children feel neglected and lonely.

10. Unable to adapt to children's growth and change: With children's growth, children's needs and problems are constantly changing, and parents need to constantly adjust their educational methods and methods to meet their growth needs.