Senior three parents' experience after watching 1
I like reading, so does my son. But what kind of books to choose for children is beneficial to their development and physical and mental health has always been my confusion. With the development of modern material civilization, the lure of TV and Internet to children, and the drive of economic benefits, children's books are very interested and like reading, but I think many things are unfavorable or even harmful to children's physical and mental development. Children don't like books that are really instructive to children.
It is of great significance for schools to carry out parent-child reading activities in the new education, so that parents can pay more attention to their children's extracurricular reading and mobilize the enthusiasm of children and parents to read good books. In order to make the children's winter vacation more enjoyable and full, the school held a special parent-child meeting to emphasize the significance and importance of parent-child reading, provide reading suggestions and recommend reading lists of relevant grades, so that our parents can have a clear purpose.
So, my children and I went to the bookstore to choose books, usually according to the bibliography recommended by the school, and then the children chose books as far as possible, which greatly mobilized the enthusiasm of the children. My son chose some books he liked, such as San Mao's wandering story, the adventures of a man with a straight mouth, the poems of a thousand families, and the wonderful digital kingdom. When my son bought his favorite book, he could not put it down.
Reading with children is not only to share happiness, but also to share confusion. Where children don't understand, I will talk about my understanding, or check the information with my children. Both parents and children increase their knowledge and train their thinking ability in reading. Now our parent-child reading is slowly changing from passive reading to active reading. Parent-child reading is becoming a good habit in our family. In the future, we will continue to improve ways and means to further stimulate children's habits of reading and thinking, so that children can be friends with books and grow up healthily and happily in reading.
High school parents' feelings after reading II
As children grow up day by day, as parents, we are more confused while enjoying the joy of children's growth. The process of education is a process of trying and exploring, and there is no experience. I just share some experiences in the process of educating children with you.
Books are man's best friends. Needless to say, the benefits of reading are not easy, but it is not easy to cultivate children's good reading habits. This is a step-by-step process, so we can't worry. Some people say that children are a mirror of their parents, and everything they say and do reflects their parents' shadow. It is the most effective way to stimulate children's reading interest and cultivate children's reading habits by combining their own interests and hobbies. Parents are role models for their children, they are real and tangible, and they share the same aspirations with their children. Therefore, parents should be persuasive, practice more, including parent-child reading, seize the opportunity to exchange their own reading experience, deepen their impressions and promote understanding. At the same time, create a family scholarly environment for children. Reading is a good way to relax, especially the atmosphere of reading together with the whole family is wonderful.
Now, our children have entered the second grade of primary school, and they have begun to have a desire for knowledge, an open mind and a vision of deep fantasy. Once the good habit of reading is formed, it is equivalent to installing a growth engine in the child's heart. The child's future growth strength will be endless, which will sow the seeds of happiness for the child's life, so let's read with the child!
High school parents' thoughts on reading 3
At school, I called on parents and children to read a book together. I learned and grew up together with my children, which was very rewarding. While accompanying my children to study, I also experienced a spiritual baptism, as if I had rediscovered the happiness of childhood growth. Read with children, feel the wonderful stories and beautiful words in the book, recall the heavy precipitation of history, experience the wonder of nature, explore the novelty and unpredictability of science, and let children feel the pleasure of reading.
The first thing to do is to find children's interests, and take this as a starting point to find some books full of childlike interest and read them with children. Slowly, children's knowledge will be broadened and their ideas will become active. When you encounter problems, you will ask a lot of "why". In order to solve these many reasons, she is willing to read more books, which further stimulates her interest in reading. In this process, she is willing to read more books. For every child, books enrich their lives and provide them with endless imagination. What we should do as parents is to guide our children to read correctly and let them find that reading is an interesting enjoyment. It is our parents' responsibility to stimulate children's desire to learn and form good reading habits. No matter how busy you are at work, you should spare some time to study with your children. In an atmosphere full of affection, you should indulge in the world of books with your children and enjoy the happiness brought by reading!
Secondly, in the process of reading, we should answer the children's questions patiently, otherwise we can't answer them in a hurry. Instead, ask some questions for her to answer, inspire her to think positively and guide her to express her thoughts. We should allow children to have different views, even if her ideas are superficial and biased, don't deny them rudely and simply. There are many things that have no absolute answers. You can explain patiently, discuss enthusiastically, convince each other with your own views, and stimulate children's thinking ability to develop in depth. If you are deadlocked, you can look up information and read books together to find the best answer, which will make her accept it completely naturally. At this time, parents also increased the knowledge that they had not paid attention to or were not interested in before, and achieved the goal of accumulating and growing together with their children.
Reading together has another great advantage. Parents and children experience the joys and sorrows of writing books together. The same mood brings parents and children closer together, and there is no gap between them. They are as close as friends and talk about everything. They can feel their children's psychological and ideological changes from a distance, so as to adjust their ways and methods in time and create a better learning environment and family environment for their children. Cultivate children into responsible citizens who contribute to society through learning. We are working hard for this goal. We are well aware of the power of example. Starting from myself, after school, parents will take a book and read it quietly, creating a reading atmosphere for their children and letting them know that reading is a good habit. The specific methods are as follows: 1. Fixed reading time. We take 7: 30 pm to 8: 00 pm as the fixed time for parents and children to study. During this time, we turned off the TV and computer, and the family strolled in the book and enjoyed reading. The second is to prepare reading guidance. According to children's reading level, this book is divided into three different areas: intensive reading, selective reading and skimming, focusing on increasing reading interest.
Cultivating children's good reading habits is not a day's work, it is not only a test for children, but also a test for us as parents. We should urge children to read an article every day, so that children can consciously remember good sentences and words in the article. Parents should try to answer their children's questions correctly when they encounter problems in reading. When they encounter unanswered questions, they should read other books, treat children's problems correctly, help children improve their thinking space, read them repeatedly, and deeply understand the meaning of the words they first came into contact with, so that their memories will be more profound.
Therefore, parents should not expect to teach their children anything. The only thing we can do is to give children an environment of "love and freedom, rules and equality", so that children can have a complete growth, including physical, sensory, emotional, cognitive, psychological and spiritual growth, instead of just being instilled with parents' cognition and skills, making life tasteless and boring.
"Take Wan Li Road and read thousands of books." Reading is a dialogue with the wise, and reading is a spiritual journey. We are slowly changing from passive reading to active reading in parent-child reading, and parent-child reading is becoming a good habit in our family. In the future, we will continue to improve ways and means to further stimulate children's enthusiasm for reading, seeking knowledge and creating, so that children can be friends with books and grow up healthily and happily in reading.
High school parents' thoughts on reading 4
Out of the recognition of Li Zhenxi's educational philosophy and the personal worship of Li Zhenxi, I read Li Zhenxi's Being the Best Parent.
The core idea that teacher Li Zhenxi told us in the preface in front of the book "Being the Best Parents" is that parents are also educators; Then in the introduction, he told us another core concept of family education-democracy! I think these two points are very important in the education of children.
Although I know my parents are educators, I often don't know how to educate them. In this article, Miss Li said, "Let your daughter be a happy person! Grow up happily with your daughter! " This is his unswerving educational philosophy. But the meaning of happiness is by no means a simple joke or blind obedience. Its meaning should be scientific and there are many healthy things in it.
What is really hard to understand is the second meaning that Teacher Li said. Because the word "democracy" is too difficult to understand, it is too difficult to really grasp the boundary between scientific democracy and blind obedience. Many things are learned after a while, and young parents can't have experience in this field. Teacher Li introduced several connotations of democracy in this article: first, respect; Second, equality; Third, respect the right to choose.
Respect means respecting their spiritual world, protecting their personality and tolerating their "rebellious psychology".
Equality means that parents should keep a childlike innocence, have the courage to apologize to their children and treat everyone equally.
Respecting the right to choose is to cultivate people's independence, let children make their own decisions, or consult with them, rather than making decisions instead of taking their place.
It is precisely because these theories are easy to say and it is difficult to grasp their discretion in practice, so Mr. Li introduced the misunderstandings that are easy to occur. In my opinion, parents should adhere to a principle and not lose their position on right and wrong issues.
The process of educating children is also the process of parents' growth. In other words, successful family education is always the education and self-education for children and parents to grow together. If every parent tries to make their children different, there will be more creative talents in this country. If you are a painter, you don't have to force your child to become Xu Beihong. You are a singer, you don't have to make your daughter Liu Huan. You are calm, but you don't have to resent your son's initiative; You are cheerful and lively, so don't worry about your daughter sitting alone in the study for a long time. ...
The biggest positive factor contained in "rebellious psychology" is not blindly following and being willing to think with one's own brain, which is a very valuable spiritual bud. Equality can only be cultivated by equality, and arrogance can only breed more arrogance. The equal atmosphere in the family is a kind of democratic education for daughters.
Being the Best Parent is a very practical book. When there are problems and puzzles in children's education, you can get unexpected results by reading this book well and communicating with the education experts inside.
High school parents' thoughts on reading 5
When my daughter goes to primary school, it is a lifelong benefit to love reading. I understand it as well as all parents. Studying with my daughter has always been what I want to do, but as a working mother, I have to do housework all day and night, so I really can't spare too much time to study with my children. This makes me feel ashamed!
My daughter is in primary school, in Class 3, Grade 1, Lisan Primary School. At school, teachers always remind children to go home and read more books, and usually assign homework for extracurricular reading. Children enter the first grade, and next semester, the school will hold the eighth reading festival, and also call on children to read more and study hard. The holding of this reading activity reminded me that I must make up my mind to accompany my children to study. Reading with children is really a pleasure.
My daughter likes reading, and she prefers the feeling of reading with her parents. She once said, "I think reading with my parents is more interesting." Ha ha! Look at this kid. In fact, she is looking forward to her parents studying together.
In this reading festival, we read Andersen's fairy tales, Pinyin version of the encyclopedia series and so on. These books are especially suitable for children's thinking and age needs. Many short stories are very meaningful and metaphorical, from which many effective family education methods are obtained, which is of great benefit to cultivating children's thinking, moral quality and communication ability. Of course, children also benefit a lot from it. Many good habits come from the knowledge and understanding of the protagonist in the book.
Every time we finish reading a book, we will discuss it together and relive the story in the book together. My daughter will tell me stories that he thinks are interesting in the book, and my father and I will help him analyze why. At the same time, we also inspire children to compare the characters in the book and find out the Excellence and' bright spot' of each character in the book.
Children's reading ability is the foundation and core of learning ability, and improving reading ability in an all-round way is very important for a child's comprehensive quality and ability.
I feel happy and satisfied by reading with my children through activities. I hope I can spare some time to study with my children every day in the future. Better guide her to explore the mysteries of the knowledge world! It's really good for the school to hold a reading festival every year. I hope this kind of activity can be better and better.
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