When Mozi saw the person who dyed the plain silk, he sighed: "If you dye it in the sky, it will fade; if you dye it in yellow, it will turn yellow. So when people enter, the color changes, and when they enter five, they think it is five colors. " Therefore, dyeing should not be sloppy. The person who dyed the silk with Mozi sighed and said, "Plain silk is dyed blue with blue dye and yellow with yellow dye. When the color of the dye changes, the color of the dyed plain silk also changes, so five colors are dyed. " So be cautious about impregnation.

When infected: that is, the infection should be appropriate. In other words, the healthy growth of children is inseparable from the appropriate environment. This environment is like a vat, the family is the first vat, and the newborn son is like a silk. Different family environments have different personalities.

Children who grow up with scholarly family rarely have bad books; There are thousands of history books at home, which parents love to read. Children are influenced by subtle influences from childhood and naturally fall in love with books. What is dyed pale is pale, and what is dyed yellow is yellow! And once infected, it is difficult to change, even for life! Wang Xizhi, a great calligrapher in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, is good at calligraphy, and so is his son Wang Xianzhi. Later generations honored him as the second king. Su Xun, a litterateur in Song Dynasty, loved reading very much, and his two sons all loved reading very much, which made a myth in China literary world: a father and son were included in the eight masters of Tang and Song Dynasties, and later generations were honored as Sansu; Chen Geng, a girl who stood out at the China Poetry Conference, was also influenced by poetry books since childhood.

On the contrary, there are no books at home, parents hate books, and children seldom love reading. You can't have a successful child if you don't study! It seems that the influence of family on children is the first important. And determines the child's character, parents respect the old and love the young, while children are filial to their parents and care for the weak; Parents are enlightened and children are reasonable; Parents are humble and children are not proud; On the contrary, if parents are strong, children will be more domineering, and if parents are arrogant, children will be more unreasonable!

This is the same school, the same classroom, the same class, the same teacher, why the children's grades are very different! Some children are sensible and polite, and some children find it difficult to obey the school rules! It seems that family education is so important! Parents should love their children if they want them to learn, and demonstrate if they want them to obey the rules. This is the power of example!