With the improvement of living standards, and now the families are all only children, parents have more energy and ability to train and educate their children, especially those born in difficult times, and always want to give their children the best learning and growth conditions to make up for their childhood deficiencies.

However, I didn't expect that people's thinking is limited and nature is infinite. This way of education has caused children to become flowers in a greenhouse, unable to withstand a little wind and rain, losing the care of their parents, but unable to adapt to the external environment. In the end, parents can only worry about their old age.

Second, the mold manufacturing type

Parents of such families are very strict with their children, from their living habits and activities, to their learning methods, hobbies, and even the choice of college entrance examination majors and the type of graduation work, all of which are mandatory guidance. Because they always think that their ideas can't be wrong, they love their children and do their best for them.

As we all know, under this educational model, children's independent learning and creativity are virtually obliterated. Although there is no denying that some children will achieve something, more children are just "products" made by models. The cloning of parents' prototypes, independent thinking and creativity of people have faded in these cloned products.

Third, economic stimulus.

The real society is becoming more and more materialistic, and many families' educational methods are also based on material stimulation for their children: first, rewards100; Before the exam 10, 50 and so on. So that in the end, there is only one word "money" in the child's head, doing housework? Yes, give money; Buy cigarettes for dad? Yes, give money; Help you with your homework? Yes, give me the money. ......

Fourth, the extrusion type

This kind of education is mainly reflected in the process of children's reading. Under the current situation, higher education and high school education are not popular, and the employment rate of college students is very low, forcing parents to put forward various harsh requirements for their children, so that their children can go to prestigious schools and have a good future. In normal times, children will be forced to study until after 10 in the evening, and on holidays, there are various cram schools and extra-long classes waiting for the children who have been drained of oil and water!