1, exhortation

There must be some parents who want to ask: What kind of punishment is persuasion? When a child makes a mistake, parents should first put down what they are doing, patiently ask the children the reasons for their disputes and quarrels, and listen to their thoughts.

For the mistakes made for the first time, we must instill the concept of incorrect behavior in time and ask children to learn to say "please, thank you, I'm sorry".

3-6 years old is a critical period for shaping children's good behavior habits.

Parents should not yell at or threaten their children loudly, nor scold them loudly when there are many people. While educating, we must avoid hurting children's self-esteem.

Step 2 punish sitting

What if the child quarrels and fights with other children? Faced with this situation, the adults did not scold him, but asked him to move his chair and think about it.

And tell the child that the penalty time is 5 minutes. This method can effectively make children realize that they have made mistakes.

And during the penalty sitting time, ease your emotions, stop being angry or crying, and start to reflect on your own problems. This has played a very effective role in paving the way for parents' speech education after the penalty sitting.

Penalty sitting is not only suitable for children who fight and fight, but also for children who are out of control and crying.

Setting the penalty sitting position in a quiet place, such as study and balcony, will measure the penalty sitting time more effectively.

3. beans

For those children who procrastinate, have poor self-discipline and can't control themselves, parents need to use a clever punishment method. At the same time, there are many ways to cultivate children's patience in arranging beans:

1. Prepare beans of various colors, mix them in bowls, and put them in different bowls one by one;

2. Prepare a rope and string it on the rope in color order;

3. Stick out specific patterns on the paper, such as circles, squares and triangles.

Paidou has a good exercise and calming effect on children with impatience and emotional instability. Exercise children's hand-eye coordination and resolution. Parents can set the amount of tasks according to their children's age and ability. It can't be too simple, and it can't be far beyond the ability of children.

Step 4 do housework

Most children have the habit of doodling, throwing things, spilling food on the table, doodling paint and not liking to tidy up toy books.

No matter how many times the parents stop it, the children are unmoved, don't feel anything wrong at all, and even find it interesting.

Doing housework can not only help children make up their mistakes and clean up their own mess, but also help children understand the difficulties of cleaning, know how to keep clean consciously and develop good habits of neatness.

For young children, parents can lead their children to do housework together and teach them the methods and skills to do housework. At ordinary times, we should also know how to cultivate children's good habits of returning things to their original owners and organize their living areas in time.

Step 5 clap your hands

There are two old sayings in our country, which are called "A dutiful son comes out under the stick" and "If you don't fight, you will be the black sheep". Looking back at those traditional means of education, we can hardly do without the word "hit".

But we always say that parents can't be violent and can't beat and scold their children easily. Can they fight or not?

"Don't be unreasonable with children. It is necessary to fight, and punishment is also very important. "

Therefore, beating children is a desirable means of education, but we must divide things, methods, parts and efforts.

For older children, you can also use a small ruler and paper stick as a "warning stick" and put it in a fixed position as a warning.

Step 6 paint

Children's paintings, whether lines, colors or composition, can actually reflect the inner world and emotions.

Children can also express their feelings and ideas through painting.

This is an effective way for parents to communicate with their children. After children make mistakes, parents can prepare picture books and brushes, so that children can draw their own ideas quietly.

After painting, tell your parents the content and significance of the painting. This method is more effective than asking children directly and intuitively.

7. Receiving projects

Confiscation punishment may be the most effective method for arrogant and unreasonable children who throw things around.

Parents can confiscate what their children throw away at will, or what they like very much, as a punishment. If children throw things casually and don't know how to cherish them, they can learn the meaning of cherishing them by throwing things and correct the habit of throwing things.

If the child is arrogant and out of control, it can be confiscated for a short time, so that the child can calm down and get a chance to communicate with his parents calmly.