Most of us are now one-child families. Parents want their children to have a bright future. Many families spend a lot of money to train their children, but the education of the only child has become a headache for many families. Why? We made mistakes in three things. The first one is the wrong direction. The second is that the method is wrong; The third is that there is something wrong with the way. A family has a framework. When the family rules are set up, your children will know how to restrain themselves and how to do it. Tutoring will affect a person's life. We must remember one sentence: if a son doesn't teach, he will kill his family; if a daughter doesn't teach, he will kill his family. If your wife makes a mistake, nine generations of your family are unlucky, and more than one generation can't clean it up. Parents should be responsible and take precautions. The child is like this now, what should I do in the future? This is a question that China people often think about. Forgiveness is better than strictness. Nowadays, many people think it is abuse when they hear Yan. What kind of abuse is this? It has nothing to do with abuse.
There is a lot of controversy about educating children. As the ancients said, a dutiful son is born under a stick. In traditional society, children are not only strictly educated, but also severely punished if they make mistakes. However, modern people think that it is a feudal patriarchal system, and children should be persuaded and educated, and they should never be beaten. Should they be beaten? It doesn't matter whether you fight or not, what matters is how you fight. Play reasonably, and don't play unreasonably. It is better to be strict, because it is easy to relax when it is strict, and it is difficult to relax when it is important. We should take care of our family first. This is called laying a solid foundation and cultivating children well. This is a long-term thing. We should obey the rules internally, and naturally set an example externally.
Almost every parent wants their children to fly in the sky in the future, and few parents are willing to train their children into a down-to-earth horse. Now, it is very important to educate children to be ambitious. Don't you know that dragons are horses and horses are dragons? But few people teach children to be down-to-earth horses. When a horse is very capable and flies into the sky, it is a dragon. Parents want their children to succeed and put them in their hearts. First, teach children to be a horse, and be a good horse, that is, a dragon. Think of Jackie Chan first, but I can't.