First of all, please answer this question: after all, is the child a parent's or a teacher's? There is no doubt that children are parents' at all times. Then the education of children is first and foremost a matter for parents, because parents are the children's first teachers.

Secondly, children will not have anything to do with teachers until they enter schools (including kindergartens) for education. Whose business do you think it is to educate children? Of course it's about parents. Right? How is your child? Is it related to the teacher? Don't! Do you think children's education is related to anyone other than their parents?

Third, even if children enter school, teachers can only teach them cultural knowledge and the truth of being a man. More behavioral habits and ideological qualities are acquired in the process of family growth, and no teacher will intentionally teach your children badly. On the contrary, as guardians of children, many families have failed to fulfill their parental responsibilities, but there are disappointing children. Do you think children's education is a matter for teachers or parents?

I want to ask: who is the most glorious person for your child's successful career in the future? One day, children will have the ability to make money. Who will Ta commend? Is it a teacher or a parent?

@ Xinyu Xinyu doesn't know how to educate children. You can learn by studying. No one is born knowing all about the plenary session. Not being able to educate children is a matter of ability, and not knowing who will educate children is a matter of cognition. Your question has to be questioned-as a parent, are you worried that you don't know how to educate your children, or do you want to pass the buck?

Conclusion It is suggested that the subject should first understand the responsibilities of parents as guardians. In that way, you won't ask such stupid and irresponsible questions as "Is educating children a matter for parents or teachers?". You can contact teachers more, actively cooperate with teachers, form a joint force between home and school, and cultivate and educate children; Then, you should take part in more research on family education, consult and learn from those excellent parents, and strive to improve your quality as a parent. I believe you should never understand and never attend the meeting.

Hello! I'm glad to answer your question.

I want to say: children's education is a matter for both parents and teachers, but parents and teachers have different educational responsibilities. For parents, the responsibility is greater, and they need to shoulder the responsibility of lifelong education for their children, but your educational influence is gradually weakening. Do you agree with me when I say this?

I guess you must be a parent who is experiencing the troubles of family education-the mother of the child. I hope what I say below can help you.

As a parent, I think you should remember that your child was already receiving your prenatal education before birth. After the child was born, under your guidance, the child learned to sit, stand and walk. The child began to learn to speak. The first word he or she learns must be mom, and the first sentence must be that you teach him or her to say "I love mom". You must be very happy at that moment!

1-3 years old is an important period for children to grow up. During this time, you taught your children a preliminary understanding of this colorful world, and you cultivated their simple self-care ability, so that they learned to do their own things from an early age. Looking at the changes of the kitten on its first day, you really hope that it will grow up quickly!

When children are 4-6 years old, you teach them the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and they know what to do and what not to do. During this period, children's thinking ability has been further developed. You accompany your children to study, and let them form a good habit of reading. In order to let children know the traditional culture of China, don't forget to teach them to recite Tang poetry and Song poetry, hundreds of family names and thousands of words in their spare time. Don't forget to communicate with children in life, constantly enrich their language, and their language and thinking develop simultaneously. Children first learned the etiquette of getting along with others and how to make friends.

You are as happy as the children at school. Seeing adults dangling around you every day, do you have a sense of crossing, as if you were a child again? You have learned to understand a child's world through his eyes. At this time, your role is not only to check and supervise, but also to accompany and demonstrate. You realize the importance of friendship. With your company, you help children develop good living habits and cooperate with school teachers to help children develop good study habits. You bend down to listen to your children's voices, meet their reasonable demands and provide them with a harmonious and happy family atmosphere. Your husband and wife love each other and your children are healthy and happy.

The child is in the third grade of primary school. Under your company and supervision, he (she) has developed good living habits, understood the importance of learning, and has good study habits. Every day, children begin to study and live in a planned way. They go to bed early and get up early. You don't need to tell them to go to school, do their homework, preview and review. Children know that learning is their own business. You just need regular supervision, inspection and timely encouragement.

To sum up, if you cultivate children's good living habits and study habits in the first and second grades of primary school, let them do it properly in the third grade, so that supervision and inspection coexist, and the fourth and fifth grades can guide, supervise and inspect, and develop children's advantages and highlights, then you are a very qualified parent.

Parents, have you done all the above? If it is finished, then I have one more sentence. For professionals, such as the further cultivation of children's learning knowledge and morality, it is good to hand it over to professional teachers, and parents should do their duty to educate their children.

Time is silent, waiting for flowers to bloom.

Is children's education a teacher's business or a parent's business now? @ Earth9999 feels that parents ask such questions because they are not ready to be parents.

To be clear, children's education is a matter for parents! For example, some children go to other people's homes as if they were at home, rummaging around. When you see something to eat, eat it if you want, and throw it away if you don't want to eat it. Parents may also say a few words, but it doesn't play a substantive role. In fact, they are conniving and ignoring them. Out of politeness, the host can't say anything, but he must be very uncomfortable and think the child is ill-bred. Where did this upbringing come from? Nature is guided by parents' education.

Some children know how to say hello when they meet people. "Good aunt!" "Goodbye, uncle", warm words always make people feel happy. I believe many people also have personal experience. Such children have a sense of politeness, norms and others, which makes people like and appreciate. Where does this accomplishment come from? It is also guided by parents' education.

This is the problem of family education. Children are parents' children, not others' children. Parents should be prepared to educate their children when they are ready to give birth. This is family education, which is the most important education for children. It plays an irreplaceable role in children's physical and mental development.

1. Cultivate children's love for nature.

2. Cultivate children's good habits.

Old Mr. Ye Shengtao said that with a long history, good habits are not as good as good habits. If parents guide their children to form the habit of running in the morning, is it possible for them to stick to it all their lives? The answer is yes. No defecation, no littering, no loud noise in public places, no swearing ... Parents educate their children from an early age to stay away from bad habits, and children will naturally reduce many such and such problems. Let children learn to cook and stir-fry, wash dishes after meals, review before doing homework, and read a story before going to bed ... Good habits affect children's life and benefit them for life.

3. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

Children have the responsibility and responsibility, and the sun will shine. Nowadays, in order to take care of their children, many families have developed the problem of reaching for clothes and opening their mouths to take food. As a result, the child feels that the people around him take care of him for granted, and the child loses gratitude. At this time, if parents can't control it, they will blame their children. As everyone knows, this is all caused by parents themselves. Parents must have the idea of making their children independent. Children's things should be done by children, or they should learn by themselves, and they should not be in charge. In this way, the child will understand what he should do and he will be duty-bound to finish it. Children can grow into real "men" and "heroes among women".

4. Cultivate children's various core qualities.

Parents should awaken their children's inner awareness of rules, life, truth, goodness and beauty, belief and will, personal dignity, feelings for home and country, and so on. What kind of person do you want your children to be? Then you should cultivate him from an early age and make him a person with soul and faith.

What role does school education play? Family education is the most important education for children, and school education is irreplaceable. Parents influence their children through example, family life and social practice, and pay attention to their habits, morality, will and feelings, so that their children can benefit all their lives.

School education is a supplement to family education, focusing on systematically guiding children to learn cultural knowledge, social norms, moral standards and values. In this way, family education is the foundation. Good family education can make children grow better in school education.

In the last sentence, parents are the legal guardians and educators of their children, so it is the obligation and responsibility of parents to educate their children. Parents should not take it for granted that children's education is a teacher's business because of the pivotal role of school education!

Su Holinsky said that neither school education without family education nor family education without school education can accomplish the extremely detailed and complicated task of cultivating people. Therefore, in the education of children, family, school and society are indispensable. Parents, in particular, should not lose the responsibility of educating their children.

Parents are children's first teachers, and school teachers can only play a role in coordinating with parents' education.

Therefore, parents play an irreplaceable role in children's education. So, how should parents educate their children?

1, teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. Parents should always lead by example and lead by example everywhere. Parents' words and deeds, every move, will be deeply imprinted in the brain, and their ability to follow the trend is particularly strong.

For example, ask children not to play games, and parents should not bury their heads in playing games whenever they have time. Children are required to study hard, and parents should also develop the habit of reading.

2. Early childhood education. Before children go to school, they should regulate their behavior. For example, develop the habit of eating seriously, and parents should not coax them into eating. The demand for things, not giving children what they want, is unconditional.

Parents must buy according to the specific situation. There is no need to buy it. Be sure to explain the truth to the children. There is also that the child has done something wrong. Parents should explain why this is wrong and what they should do to make their children have a correct view of right and wrong.

From primary school, parents should accompany their children, finish their homework in time after school, and then go to play. After more than a year's company, children should leave their company and ask to finish their homework in time after school before playing. If you do this for a long time, you will naturally develop the habit of autonomous learning.

If, in this process, whine and procrastinate, then parents can only correct it with punishment and persuasion. If good habits are not formed at this time, it will be difficult to correct them later.

When you come home from school, there must be parents at home. When children come back from school, parents must be at home, so that children can feel the warmth of home. Children will naturally enter the learning state soon. If children go home for a long time and can't see their parents, they may run around and not finish their homework on time. In the long run, children will be lazy and hate learning, and become students with learning difficulties.

Parents should praise and criticize their children in an appropriate way. The so-called appropriate method is to praise the child more verbally, give him (her) what he (she) wants moderately, and let her (he) realize the truth that he (she) must pay if he (she) wants it. Criticism is not swearing, sticks add up.

But first point out the possible consequences of your mistake. After making it clear, ask the child to really realize where his mistakes are and convince others by reasoning, and the child will naturally be convinced.

If the child makes a mistake, his fists will fight together and his heart will be greatly hit and hurt. Only the surface will yield, but the heart will not accept it. In the long run, children will have to run away from home to fight. Or extreme behavior, jumping off buildings one by one. That will cause irreparable damage.

5. Frustration education must be carried out. Children should be educated from an early age. If they fall, they should get up by themselves. When studying, you don't obey the discipline, the teacher criticizes you, parents should support you, stand on the teacher's side, analyze and point out the wrong direction of correction, and praise you in time after correction.

If you do something wrong at home, ask the child to admit it bravely, put forward his own disciplinary measures, and then urge the child to correct it. Children's poor test scores should be analyzed together with children to find out the reasons, improve learning methods and promote continuous progress in learning.

To sum up, my personal views are for reference only.

When writing materials, our teacher often says that education needs the cooperation of family, school and society.

Yes, as a parent, you may think that sending your children to school is a school matter. Teaching well is the credit of the school, and teaching badly is responsible. You are right, educating students is the meaning of the existence of schools, but please don't forget that if you don't live in schools, your children will only stay in schools for seven or eight hours. Even if you live on campus, there is always a holiday. Perhaps carelessly, a month's educational achievements of the school will be wiped out in an instant.

Everyone knows the story of Meng Mu's three strokes, so how many people have pondered the helplessness behind her three strokes? That is the lack of social responsibility for children's education. When parents pick up their children, they all notice that there are obvious public security signs in the school guard room, right? This is the government's responsibility for social maintenance.

As a teacher, I often instill an idea in parents: First, the child is your own, which is one thousandth or even one thousandth for the school, but it is 100% for you. Do you have any reason not to cooperate with the school to do a good job in children's education? Second, don't look at the hot speculation about choosing a school district. Does entering a prestigious school mean entering a safe? Not necessarily. There is no perfect school in this world. If you leave it completely, you will regret it one day. Third, you should take your children's education as your own career. Only in this way can children become better.

Therefore, I said to the subject, calm down and spend more time with your children! Don't care whose business the children's education is, as long as you understand that it is a big deal for you. Think about it when you are upset. How many years can you stay with him? Children will grow up eventually.

I just want to say the topic and tell you sincerely: educating children is really a matter for parents, there is no doubt and responsibility! Don't shout "What do you want the teacher to do?" What is the school for? "

I just want to say, "Parents are the first teachers in children's lives. You should not try to educate children deeply, intelligently, scientifically and persistently. What do you want parents to do? Why do you want to have children? "

This seems to be a drag. As a parent, I am also a teacher. I really know that parents who throw pots and teachers who shirk their responsibilities will educate their children anytime and anywhere. Why not do what they should do and work together to shape excellent children?

I also know that the parents who asked this question have been taking online classes for more than three months, because your child may not be so active and serious, and your child's teacher entrusted you with the management and supervision of children's learning. You are angry with you, you are depressed, you pity and love your children. You have to promise to take care of the children while gnashing your teeth to complain to the teacher at the other end of the network. You don't have to do this, it's not right!

The child is yours, and you have the responsibility to educate and manage him all your life. You can learn if you don't know management. No one is born to be a parent, right?

Students and teachers only have the relationship between teaching and learning, education and management in a certain period of time. During this period, professional teachers will do professional things and give your children some influence and guidance in academic progress, method guidance, emotional attitude and so on. You can't expect him to be in charge for life.

Speaking of which, I always think of myself. Before my child 17 years old graduated from high school, I went all out to participate in his growth and education, reading and writing together, chatting and playing games together, and scrutinizing articles together. Those days were very busy and hard, and they were also very fulfilling and enjoyable. I didn't follow blindly, didn't complain, didn't shirk my responsibility, and let education really happen. The child is mine, and it is my bounden duty to educate him!

what do you think? Welcome to discuss!

Children's education is first and foremost a matter for parents. As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers. What kind of parents, what kind of children, children are the shadow of parents. Under the influence of parents, children's three views have gradually formed and have an important impact on school education. If parents play mahjong at home every day and are prone to swearing and hurting people, they are indifferent to their children's education. It is hard to imagine that they will educate children who are law-abiding, polite, filial to their parents and have excellent grades. Therefore, children's education is a matter for parents first, and then for teachers. A child educated in a family that respects the old and loves the young, respects each other as guests, and is diligent and enterprising must be a good student that everyone loves in his school. Such students will not be too bad in moral quality or academic performance. Therefore, for children's education, don't simply put the blame on schools and teachers, and everything will be fine. I hope my answer can help you.

Children's education is not a matter for one person, but for parents, schools and society!

Let's start with parents. It is said that parents are children's first teachers. From the moment the child is born, the words and deeds of parents and family members have a subtle influence on the child. Therefore, doting and doting are the most serious killers of children. Fiona Fang can't live without rules, especially children. Every day is a growing period. Without the careful care of a good gardener, it is impossible to make a fortune!

Besides the school, the teacher in the school is the most important companion in the child's life, so the teacher regarded as an angel by the child is also regarded as an imperial edict. Therefore, as a teacher, we must be cautious in front of children, and we must not hurt children's self-esteem and dampen students' enthusiasm for learning!

The third is society. Man is the product of the environment, and the social environment must also undertake the task of education.

It takes three generations to make a gentleman. Only in an environment where education is everywhere, with careful and responsible gardeners and patient and responsible care, can children receive the healthiest education.

I am honored to answer: Is the education of children a matter for teachers or parents now? I don't know how to educate.

Children are their own children, and education is of course the parents' own business. Because every parent's time and ability are limited, the school has the education of teachers.

1, you also know the child's first teacher. As we all know, since the baby is in the mother's belly, parents are giving prenatal education and enlightenment to the child. After birth, parents will also teach their children a lot of life knowledge and social common sense. Tutoring is also the foundation of children's career. So parents are children's first teachers.

2. Family education has far-reaching influence. Family education plays a very important role in children's growth. Even directly affect the effect of school education. In family education, we should remain neutral, cultivate the spleen and establish the initial rules of doing things. It will directly affect children's attitude in the school environment, which is manifested in their learning attitude and getting along with their classmates. Long-term performance of children during their growth.

For example, at home, parents love their children and often like to eat snacks and other foods and toys. When I was a child, I didn't know how to share happiness with others. When I grow up, I exposed my selfish side, and most of my life will not be a selfless person!

3. School education is basic knowledge education. School education is a big and comprehensive knowledge education. Every child is like a bucket of all kinds. How much water can be pumped depends entirely on the child.

In the school environment, teachers can't care and carve a child carefully, but can only improve the educational effect as high as possible. This is a kind of mass education, a kind of universal education. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude can only be based on the characteristics of most children in each age group, and it is impossible to educate them one by one.

On the contrary, in family education, parents are the "only" of that child and only teach one student's "teacher".

Parents' education for their children is a process of groping for learning and practice, and it is an irreversible process. Getting along with our children is also a process of wits and courage, so it is the most test of our parents' patience to be a principled parent on the basis of respecting children, not a dogma! For example, every parent is reluctant to give their children 50 cents and 1 snacks at the school gate, and will buy more delicious and healthy snacks for their children. But children can't, as long as they have money, they will buy it secretly. So what should parents do? At first, when children want to buy street snacks, they should be told "the harm of snacks", which not only popularized the ingredients and harm of snacks, but also caused real cases of children's unhealthy health. (Of course, this popular science language needs children to understand. As the saying goes, listening is empty, but seeing is believing. Try to understand the harm as truly as possible. No child wants to eat it. Some parents said: My child is stubborn and wants to eat! It doesn't matter. Buy it for him and let him eat it openly. It doesn't matter once in a while. It also shows that your science popularization is not in place, so continue to popularize science.