1, look at the children with appreciation.
Parents should not criticize and accuse the rebellious children in junior high school too much, but should treat them with appreciation, so that children can feel that in the eyes of parents, nature is not so bad, and parents still like themselves.
2. Communicate with children in a more consultative tone.
When communicating with rebellious children, parents can no longer educate their children in a tough and imperative tone. Children already have their own thoughts and ideas, so when talking, they can discuss with their children more and put forward their own opinions, so that children can make more choices.
3. Give care and help
For rebellious children, parents should pay more attention to their words and deeds, pay more attention to their behavior changes, and of course, parents should not interfere too much. As long as there is nothing unusual about the child as a whole, parents should pay more attention, let the child understand his love and feel the warmth of home, so that the child is willing to communicate with himself.
4. Know how to let go properly
For children in the rebellious period, what children hope most may be that their parents don't restrain themselves too much, give themselves independent space and tell their parents that they have grown up, so parents should let go appropriately and don't restrict everything for fear that their children will do something wrong.
5. More communication between parents and children
This is the most fundamental. There may be a generation gap between many parents and children, and they can't figure out what their children are thinking. But as a parent, have you really communicated with your children? Don't oppress children by saying you are an old man or something. This is the last thing children like. You should communicate with children like friends.
6. Let the rebellious children in junior high school practice the experience.
It is through practice and experience to resolve children's rebellious psychology. If a father and son leave, the son must buy watermelon when he sees it. Father said it was too far from home and it was too tiring to carry it back, so he didn't buy it. The son is unhappy: "You don't buy my favorite watermelon. You like me to study well, but I don't study well." The father thought about it and said to his only son, "You can buy melons and take them home." The only son agreed, and he was so tired that he took the watermelon home that his son was deeply touched: "It is not easy to eat a watermelon."