From Confucius' time: only villains and women are hard to feed. From then on, women's status was not high, and even women only served as an accessory in patriarchal politics. Moreover, the excessive demand for male labor in ancient society directly led to the low status of women, so it is not surprising that the demands on women in ancient China were almost harsh.
Although ancient times emphasized that women could not learn cultural knowledge, they emphasized women's virtue. Think that women should keep their virginity, keep their virginity. Only such a woman can gain a foothold in ancient society, otherwise, women with bad conduct will not only be looked down upon by outsiders, but also at home.
Therefore, the whole society has such requirements for women, which directly leads to the gradual inclination of many women's behaviors to this so-called standard. Moreover, they should always pay attention to their behavior, fearing that their words and deeds do not conform to the standards set by this society.
It can be seen from these that in ancient times, women may not be literate, but their emotional intelligence is very high. This is also in line with the requirements of division of labor. Father is the cultivation of talents and the control of children's general direction; And mothers teach their children to better integrate into this society from an early age.