When it comes to educating children, every parent is filled with emotion. I am no exception. Over the years, I feel that children's family education is very important in teaching and educating people. Today, as a teacher and a parent, I want to share with you my personal views on educating children.
First, love children.
Teachers should love their students and parents should love their children. Maybe you will say that this truth is simple enough. Which parent doesn't love their children? But some parents' love can't be accepted and recognized by children. I often give my naughty son a kind hug, a shallow smile, persuasive persuasion and a small gift. This will make the child naturally feel the love given by his parents and enhance his trust in his parents. Therefore, teachers and parents should use love to cultivate children's good behavior habits.
Second, learn to respect children and listen to their voices.
Parents should put down their condescending attitude, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should listen attentively and ask your child from time to time: "Is there anything interesting in school?" Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Did your smiling face increase again today? " Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will also respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think this is very important for cultivating children's character.
Third, encourage children to dare to meet challenges.
Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of competition and the spirit of daring to meet challenges from an early age. I often encourage my son to say, "You are great and so smart. You can answer such difficult knowledge correctly. Mom admires you! " "He was flattered when you listen. He always thinks positively about problems and stimulates his enthusiasm for learning. During holidays, I encourage my children to take part in extracurricular activities. When he was in trouble, I kept cheering him up. At this time, I will work hard with my child to infect him with practical actions and achieve the purpose of moral education.
Fourth, be good at discovering and cultivating children's interests.
Einstein said, "Interest is the best teacher." Only by starting from interest can children enjoy learning. At present, there is a strange phenomenon in society, that is, at a very young age, most children have to learn a lot of knowledge, and many parents will not consider the learning effect of their children. It seems that the more they learn, the closer they get to success, whether their children want to learn or not, resulting in a waste of money, energy and innocent happy time. Therefore, I hope that parents can capture their children's interests from their daily life and study, guide them, and then let their interests heat up and burn. Only in this way can we get the best results.
A famous educator put it well: "The fate of a country is in the hands of parents rather than rulers." The education and cultivation of children is a very complicated science. Let our parents, teachers and schools cooperate to cultivate more outstanding talents.
Parents' experience in educating their children
Successful examples of family education through the ages tell us that parents are the first teachers of children, and the success of children in adulthood is largely influenced by parents. Therefore, parents must pay great attention to their words and deeds and pay great attention to the education and guidance of their children. Like most parents, I want my children to do something when they grow up.
Our children are in the third grade this year. Since entering school, with the help of teachers and schools, he quickly adapted to school life, gradually developed good study habits and became a qualified primary school student. More than three years have passed, and my biggest feeling is that a good family learning environment has created good study habits for children. And if a person has a good habit, it will benefit people for life.
First, family education should start with word teaching.
Parents like reading books and forget their work, which have left six impressions on their children. It also plays a subtle role in them. Treat children's learning,
You can't just talk without doing it. Parents should do well first. Nowadays, there are many ways for children to contact information, and the amount of information is also very large. Yes, the yamen asked.
It's hard to avoid stumping adults. Adults can't do without studying. So we will often buy books and read books. When you read a book, children will naturally watch it next to you, and sometimes children will ask some common-sense questions when they go to exercise. This not only exercises the body but also satisfies the children's thirst for knowledge, killing two birds with one stone. We ask our children to do things seriously. After the child finishes his homework, we will help him check and find that his handwriting is scrawled, and we will let her erase it. Sometimes, he can't bear to part with it, but he can't be soft-hearted. He must remember that if he doesn't do it well the first time, he must make more efforts. Therefore, we must do things seriously and try to do more.
Second, you can't like everything too much, but you can't let it go.
Nowadays, parents know that they can't spoil their children too much, and they can't give them whatever they want to meet their requirements. This will easily make children self-discipline in behavior, which will eventually lead to poor self-control, lack of self-motivation, and lack of courage and interest in overcoming difficulties. The child likes singing and dancing very much, and also has the talent of writing, so we created conditions for him to dance. I remember he cried when he first learned, because learning to dance was a very hard thing. The next day, he felt sore all over, and it hurt to raise his hand. I asked him if he still wanted to learn, and he said he would, and if he wanted to do a great physical exercise, he would succeed. It took a long time this time. I watched him sweat profusely and practiced every movement the teacher taught me. It hurts to see it in your eyes. If he succeeds in every move, I will cheer him up. The children are getting worse and worse, and the children are much younger. I said, dad, I made it! Looking at the bright smile of the child, I am proud of him from the bottom of my heart. Yue Yue likes toys very much. There are many toys at home. I'm going to school now. If he likes it very much, I'll set him a goal, and he can buy it if he finishes it well. This can stimulate his interest in learning and get rid of some bad habits. The child's schoolbag is arranged by himself. After he goes to bed, I sometimes check whether it is clean and tidy, and whether the school supplies are complete. If there is enough, I will help him put it in. I'll remind him afterwards. As the child grows up, we will let him do some small things in life. Sometimes help adults do what they can. We want him to understand that he should not only read good books, but also learn to live and care for everyone.
Third, expectations should not be too high, but they should be strict.
Parents want their children to succeed, and we share this mentality, but we won't force her to learn what he doesn't like. He likes painting very much.
From a few years old to many years now, he not only has no interest, but regards it as an inseparable part of life. This is his naive idea.
The best place to publicize is the animals, flowers and trees painted by children. They have different ideas, flexible expressions and clear meanings. I will have a kind of happiness. My idea is that it is enough for children to do what they like and be a person with a wide range of hobbies, who works hard and is useful to society.
Fourth, actively cooperate with teachers' teaching activities and study with children.
If the teacher assigns homework that needs parents' cooperation, I will do it with my children seriously. Those who need to read books will read them, and the materials that need to be collected or downloaded online will be completed on time. If my daughter wants to make a handwritten newspaper, I will go online to help her collect information, design the layout with her and accompany her to finish it. The school's scholarly campus activities allow parents and children to study together. I put a book at the bedside every day, and the children follow me. Before going to bed, our mother and daughter read books together for a while. Since then, Jia Changyi has developed a good habit of loving reading. Every morning during the summer vacation, my daughter and I went to Dahua Park with a copy of 100 adult story. On the top of the mountain, I read a famous story to my daughter before going home.