The word "puppy love" is definitely a sensitive topic for parents. Many parents are more nervous than their children when they learn about puppy love. Just like the enemy arrival, they are worried that their children will not learn well, but they are helpless. The most taboo for adolescent children is compulsory interrogation and preaching. We should try to guide children calmly instead of preaching blindly.

Don't overreact

Don't be too nervous or overreact when you find your child in puppy love. Excessive reaction will only cheer up the child's rebellious psychology and have no effect on the child.

Chat guidance

Try to tell your children stories about your youth. Try to guide our children through chatting. If the child is willing to talk to you, we will be a listener. If children don't want to share, I hope parents don't force it.

Calm down and talk.

Have a calm and frank talk with your child. First of all, we must show that our attitude is not against it. Then tell your child that there are some things to do and some things not to do at this age, and you should make three chapters with your child. You can't affect your grades because of love, and you can't violate school rules because of love.

Lovelorn education

First love is mostly fruitless. When our children are faced with lovelorn love, don't be cynical and don't feel lucky. We should take this opportunity to tell our children that love is not everything in life. Love is not a game, but a responsibility, which is very helpful for shaping our children's love concept.