Do a lot of things, as long as you set the right goals and make effective efforts, you can achieve a secular achievement. Parenting is almost impossible to succeed.

Every parent will have some defects, but how to minimize the defects of parents?

There is a simple answer, and that is: let go.

Many children's problems are caused by too much parental control or improper "discipline". As psychologist Yang Fengchi once said, the best education is that children don't know if they have been educated; Parents should not cast spells on their children at will.

The following is a common "problem" in children's development. Of course, there are many similar problems and the space is limited. We only list the high frequencies that appear in the background of WeChat. One of the great principles in dealing with such problems is to accept children as they are. Trust your children and worry as little as possible.

You know, worrying everywhere is a curse.

▋ Children are aggressive and slow in social development? There is a weak mother hiding behind her.

A mother asked:

Teacher Luo, my son is 6 years old this year. I feel that he is not very good at interacting with children since he was a child. He loves to do things regardless of the consequences. I think his language ability can't keep up, so I like to use my hands. But now that I'm 6 years old, I still think there's something wrong. Every time I teach him how to live in harmony with children, nothing has changed. I don't know how to guide him. How to change him?

Mother's description of the problem is actually very uncomfortable. If the child is only 6 years old, it can be concluded that the child will not associate with the child "since childhood". Now that the child is 6 years old, how "small" is it? As you can imagine, from a very young age, this child is a problematic child in the eyes of his mother. Later, the child really obeyed his mother's wishes, and there were still "problems" in social life.