Yin Jianli, a teacher, combined with her own parenting experience, conveyed the educational concept of caring and traceless with simple and easy-to-understand narration. To tell the truth, read this book and experience the earthquake of the mind while reading it. I feel ashamed and guilty about raising.
"All teachers who blow their beards and stare, beat and scold their children and humiliate them are poor teachers. It is impossible for them to teach their children well." This sentence touched me a lot. This sentence applies not only to teachers, but also to all mothers. Some people say that "a mother's mood affects her child's future." In the process of raising children, many times the mother's emotions are easily out of control.
? I remember I used to be like this. I have to work and take care of my children. I am very busy in class, so I will pick up my children after school. Take the children home and cook and wash clothes. I finally put the children to sleep, write plans and papers, wash clothes and prepare for tomorrow's work ... every day, I feel like a top. I don't have time to spend with my children seriously, and I'm not in a good mood. In particular, you are as busy as a bee, but when the child is noisy, he is upset and his mood collapses instantly. Look back at the child's wronged tears, remorse, regret and chagrin. So I chose to change myself, starting with changing my mentality.
? Just this year, I taught first-grade children. They are about the same age as my boss, one to two years old. Every day, I see children studying hard. I consciously punch in and read books on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Wherever I go, I can hear children calling me to say hello from afar ... Don't mention how happy I am to see all the smiling children.
The most beautiful education is the simplest one, which gives me the greatest feeling that I should treat my students or my children. Don't rush to adopt any policies to deal with it. The scale of education should be moderate and be good at thinking, and the effect of education will be obvious. The most beautiful is often the simplest. We just need to have a normal heart, trust children, cultivate ourselves, and let every child live in love and freedom.
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