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How to improve self-worth through learning
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Dear girlfriend Li Tianyi.

Hello:

1, the word "learning" comes from Confucius, a thinker and educator in China. "Learning" means imitation, that is, acquiring knowledge and increasing wisdom from others or books, environment and media. The original meaning of "learning" is that birds take off frequently, and it refers to acquiring knowledge and skills from their own practical experience. For example, a child knows that a hot stove can't be touched after being scalded, which is his acquired knowledge, and if he learns from a large group of people that a hot stove can't be touched, this is his acquired knowledge. These are Confucius' views on learning. What is learning in your mind?

2. Everyone can give a basic definition of happiness, and finally we will ask this question: What is happiness? Since ancient times, everyone has his own happiness: Li Bai's happiness is writing poems; Yi An's happiness is writing; Qu yuan's happiness is to serve the motherland with all his actions; Yao Ming's happiness is playing basketball. What is your happiness? Is it flying a kite? Playing football? Or play cuju? And I want to tell you that my happiness is: learning!

Tweety, I remember writing to you several times, some handwritten, some printed, some paper, some length. I don't know if you have noticed, what is my purpose? Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? I can tell you that the long printed letter I wrote to you before has many things, only one. It's the letter about your illness. I wrote so much, and I wrote a lot when I printed it again. There is a reason for this. I don't know. Did you find out? I can tell you that as long as I write a long article, that's what I care about most, otherwise I won't have so many things and be so wordy. Don't be wordy, but every word is true! I wrote to you earlier to say that your "illness" is a long story, which shows that I attach great importance to it. And this letter is the second long story, so the content of this letter and the central sentence of this letter are the results I want. I mainly wrote two words: "learning"

I'll tell you a story first. Here's the thing. Two months ago, I played a game with my friends (He Congcong, Liu Wenpo, Tian Yu, Liu Penglei and Liu Jinmeng) in Tian Yu. The game is called Kill of the Three Kingdoms and consists of dozens of cards similar to playing cards. In this game, there is a role like "Three Kingdoms Entertainment Circle", and the tricks are of course developed on the cards. Among my friends, I can tell you, plus all my friends, they will play this game and will come back after buying it for a while, but I, no matter how they teach me, can't teach it. To tell the truth, I'm not stupid, but I don't care, I don't care, and I feel useless. Just then, Wen Wei Po said something, and it suddenly dawned on me. That day, you had a headache and couldn't accompany me to dinner. On the day you wrote to me, in the third class, four teachers called me to the office and asked me about the computer. I said what the woman said. What our teacher said really made me dare not think. Wen Wei Po said, "Don't teach him, he is not interested in this. If he likes to play, he will ask himself to study. I think each of us will teach him. " That's the sentence. I thought about it for a long time. When I got to my teachers, they asked me, "You said you couldn't study. How can this work? " I said, "I'm not interested in learning. If I am interested, I will study first. " At that time, our teachers all said, "Yes, that's it." From this point of view, neither my teacher nor everyone denies that doing things is interesting! If a person is interested in doing something, then he will do it quickly and well; If a person is not interested in doing something, then he will do it slowly and not qualified. Am I right? ! So, so is learning. Is there a big difference between being interested in learning and not interested in learning? Therefore, I hope you can regard learning as a very good and happy thing, instead of being tired of learning. I will buy a dictionary that day after I drop out of school. This is my childhood oath. Although I am poor in learning, I have the motivation to learn, but I am not interested in learning. If you can learn with interest, will you learn quickly? So you can't deny it?

5. Then use interest to study and fall in love. You may have heard that several girls have chased me, but there is only one reason why I don't want my suitor. Qiao Dongmei and I didn't become lovers. Among the girls chasing me, Qiao Dongmei is backward in study, so I won't take her. You know in those people's eyes, my girlfriend can do anything, but she must study hard. Is it embarrassing for me that I want Qiao Dongmei to be my girlfriend? The reason why I write this letter to you is, of course, to improve your academic performance. You know, as long as you are behind in your grades, it is not you who look down on you, because they will not look down on a rival in love, but me. They'll say me. Who are you looking for? Learning is so stupid! I don't want to hear this. The study of that one is almost a little worse. This time, more than 30 students, Liu Xiaoqing, are my first girlfriend. Since she came to Lizhong, she has won five prizes and gone three times, which shows that her grades are also very good. And that Liang, she always wins prizes and is always in the top twenty. And you, I see your grades, after 100, someone has started to say something. Do you know how much my heart hurts?

On the tenth day after we became lovers, I had an idea. Do you remember that I accidentally said, "I didn't pass the exam?" Please, I'm only happy when you go to college. When you go to high school, we can break up. "Do you remember? I used to say the same thing when I was at school. On campus, I also told Han Tong that I said "I want to break up with Tweety" and "What do you say?" "I'm afraid ... she will go to high school and university." "Don't say you are afraid of delaying her. "I don't think so after a few days, but now, things are different. This shows that if you can go to college, I would rather not have you than delay you. Maybe I love you in the wrong way and can't do this, but, you know, I was scared at first, really scared. There are many couples in society who change their minds when they go to other schools or universities and high schools. Therefore, delaying you is just one of them, and the other is that I don't want you to abandon me when you fall in love with other boys in high school or college. At that time, I will be very painful and miserable. So, I'll break up with you now on the grounds that I won't delay you. Now that it's different, it's because of your illness. You know what I'm going to say. I'm afraid you'll be sad when I say it. You know, I won't say much. In a word, I can leave you as long as you can go to college.

7. I don't know if each of your papers is a question with a score of 100 or a score of 120. In short, you didn't get 90 points in a class. I won't believe it anyway. Chinese is not a question with a score of 120, and there is no question with a score of 120 compared with other papers. You told me that your Chinese is not good and your composition is the worst in the whole class. I really don't understand what the worst thing is and how bad it is. Among these courses, I like Chinese and foreign languages best. Chinese can pass, the top three in composition. My composition is super good in our class 13. I have two composition classes and write a composition. Next week, the teacher will pick out the good compositions and read them twice, but the teacher will only come up with three or four good ones, including two of mine. It can be seen that my composition is still quite good and my imagination is very rich. You said that your composition was not well done in the class, and I was really speechless. No matter what level of Chinese test paper, composition often accounts for 40% or 50% of the total score. If you say that your composition is not good, I will feel very distressed. There is nothing difficult about writing a composition. You can buy some composition books to make up for it, and read your mind out of a perfect composition. See how others write their compositions. As for foreign languages, I studied foreign languages for some time. I like Russian, but my Russian is 20% worse than my English. Needless to say, I'm a little interested in foreign languages. I like to show my English on some occasions. Compared with a foreign language, your Chinese score in a foreign language is higher than that in your mother tongue exam!

8.654381October 28th, you told me that you did well in the exam. I don't know what this means. What does this mean? You know, this sentence of yours means a lot. You think you can do all the questions in the test paper, which is more than the last test, but you did well in the test, right? Is your knowledge improved, or is the test paper simple? If the test paper is simple, people will say that I did well this time. Isn't this a fact? After this exam, you may think that your knowledge has improved, but if the test questions are difficult, you won't. Do you think you haven't learned much?

9. The second story. In July and August this year, Yan Kun chased a girl named Liu Yang. She didn't study well at all, and she was the most annoying and hurtful person in her class. She doesn't study, and her clothes are open every day, which makes me want to vomit. When this matter was known, I expressed my attitude: "If they are together, how can they live!" At that time, the vague tone and the reason for this kind of thing were really funny. Laughed at me for a long time. She was right. Both of them are scum, scum Neither of them studies well. How can they live together? Don't make people laugh? Therefore, no matter what I am doing, I must also make sure that my future wife is a good learner! Because if I marry a bad student and have no education in the future, my friends and neighbors will laugh at me and look down on me, which has nothing to do with popularity. Therefore, in my opinion, your academic performance is very important, because your performance not only represents how your people's culture is, what your friends there say, but also represents how my neighbors and colleagues evaluate my family! So, if you love me and want me to marry you, you should study hard now. Only by studying can you stand on my side!

10, with me, whenever and wherever you are, you have no choice but to study hard. Just like in front of other girls, as long as you don't study well, it's not you who are ashamed, but me. They will say, "You have good people, not bad people." They don't want someone who is ill and studies worse than themselves to be my wife. There will be many people who are dissatisfied and disagree and gossip behind their backs! I hope you don't give these people a chance, and don't let them say these things, because I am afraid.

1 1, you can try to think, if we are like Yan Kun and Liu Yang, how should we live after marriage? You just need to study. I have my skills, because I have made a name for myself in playing computer games. Now I am basically beyond the ability of ordinary people. If I have time now, I can start a business now. And you can't live without studying. Your knowledge can help me to contribute to my future venture. Why not help each other and learn from each other? I can't learn well without knowledge, so you have to make up for my shortcomings. I have the ability, you have the culture. Isn't this a perfect couple? !

12, when you were in junior high school, maybe I never went to school. In two or three years, I can finish my business. At this time, I will need a literate person to help me and be my right-hand man. After you leave school, I will set up a studio, a big studio. With your knowledge, our future life may be very rich. Without your knowledge, we may be poorer than ordinary people. After you go to school, of course, you can find your own job. At that time, I will show my ability and make your work smooth and your career developed.

13, so don't think about anything now, just study. After leaving school, I will often visit you at school to see if your academic performance has improved and impressed me. If you need anything, please let me know and I'll do it for you. I want your excellent grades. Since I printed the topic of "learning" in a long article, it shows that your study has a great and inseparable relationship with me.

14, our friends or classmates play together, even our wives are better than this. The comparison is whose wife is obedient, whose wife is the most beautiful and whose wife studies better, so the only thing you can do is study. As long as you study hard, no one will say that I have the wrong person. As long as you study well, we all have face. As long as you don't study well, it's not the two of us, it's myself! Now, if you want to get rid of public opinion, you have to get good grades and let others see them. I'm not wrong about anyone! Let others see that you are worth being my girlfriend than any other girl!

15, let me tell you another story. You may have heard this story, but it is also a fable. There was a young businessman walking in a dark valley at night. It was dark and he got lost. He can't find his way out of the mountain. The cold wind is blowing, and he is afraid that his hair will stand on end. Just when he was very scared, a voice floated in the air. I don't know where it came from The voice said to him over and over again, "Young man, there are stones on the ground. Pick a few. " That voice has been chasing him. "Young man, there are stones on the ground. Pick them up quickly and they will be useful tomorrow morning. " Finally, the voice almost begged and became a mother's voice. "Young man, there are stones on the ground, which will be useful in the morning." He thought it was better for me to do it, so he bent down and casually picked them up and put them in his hand. A few stones in his hand miraculously led him out of the mountain. It was dawn, and the young man wanted to know what he had in his hand. It has such great magic. After he opened his hand, wow! It turned out to be golden, and the young man finally understood that yesterday's voice was kind and could not help but regret it. Why didn't I pick more yesterday? But when he looked back, he only saw the vast mountains connected in darkness, and he couldn't go back that way. By now, you may have heard of it. Do you know how many adults in this society have become the protagonists in this story? They regret why they didn't learn more when they were young. Only when they are adults can they know that knowledge is very useful! This story can also be said that I am the protagonist. I don't want my future wife to be the protagonist of this story, because all the protagonists have failed. How am I supposed to live? Losers find reasons, winners find ways!

16, this letter, I wrote 5 thousand words, the theme is your study. That day, the day I looked for Director Xiong, you played in front of the statue. In the evening, you said in QQ that you saw me coming out of the guidance office, and my expression was very bad, so I was unhappy. Although this lecture is a class, I have learned a lot in one class, and I know some things without being taught by Director Xiong. Today, I will use the words in his letter to tell you what he means. He talked to me about things, no doubt love. "You chase people in the sixth grade, you don't study, and you can't help them not to study." Director Xiong didn't know how I fell in love, so I didn't care about some words. "If you fall in love with other girls, you will go to high school together, go to technical school together and start a business together. This is a positive side." It's no use telling you anything else. Then at night, I knew you were asleep when you ignored me, and then Director Xiong went online. I asked him, "Mr. Xiong, I felt something when you finished." "I don't know whether your feelings are positive or negative." "Of course, it is positive. I think we should not only enjoy our feelings, but also make each other more active with love. In this way, falling in love is not a bad thing. It's a good thing. ""That's how you understand it. No matter from which aspect, love always yearns for beauty, but most people always think of love askew, which makes both parties' grades decline and other unfavorable factors. "I hope you can read these dialogues carefully, read them several times and see if they are true. In fact, I understand this truth very well, but Mr. Xiong has laid a deeper foundation for me. Therefore, I hope our love is positive, and I hope I can bring you many benefits, instead of letting your grades drop and doing this and that for me, so I will feel very indebted to you.

17, don't blame me for being cruel, in fact, love is like this. I want to say, for your study to judge the cleanliness of love, don't forget that you are the heroine who created the cleanest love history in Lebanon 1, and this ideal will certainly depend on your study. Let the caring people and teachers and students of the whole school see how clean and positive our cleanest love is. So, who will deny it? Who can deny that it is not good for us to fall in love?

18, it seems that I am going to say the most rude thing. Your academic performance means everything to me! As long as your grades and any advantages decline, this is a negative effect, which means that I have failed, which means that my strengths are not good for you. I will break up with you forever, because I don't want my future memories to owe you anything. For me, the only reason why I break up with you now is this, nothing else. If you want me to accompany you, love you, take care of you and marry you when you grow up, start studying hard now and do everything well.

19. I'll call you later. As long as you have homework to write, you don't have to come out. Just let others tell me that you have homework. I won't call you again. You write slowly. I'll call you after you finish your homework. I'm not angry. Homework is something that every student should finish on time and in quantity, and I also need to study. Isn't it? Of course, I want you to accompany me, but as long as you have homework, I can't see you. How can I waste your youth for my own enjoyment? ! What is right/its wisdom/what is wrong? Yue: No/but there are. Everyone is learning, you can't fall behind, because you are learning with great responsibility and love mission. Since I value you and choose you, you can't let me down! Knowledge changes fate!

20. Learning without thinking is useless, and thinking without learning is dangerous. If your love for us is serious and devoted, then you have to study! Your grades are the best proof that you love me! Then, I want to thank you for giving me a chance to love you. I really appreciate you. If you want to remember me correctly and get more love from me, then put aside all your troubles and study hard. Every time you suddenly don't want to study, or feel that your academic performance has dropped, after reading this letter, I believe you will have the courage to study again, even for me, okay? Your second letter to me clearly emphasized that I was not allowed to come to see you at noon. Your teacher gave you an exam. You didn't do well in the exam. You need to work hard. I'm glad I didn't see you at noon, but you have gained some knowledge, which I think is worth it. But that letter doesn't represent my opinion of your study. This letter will be written eventually. Because the meaning is different.

2 1, Tweety, I have finished reading this letter. I've said what I should and shouldn't say. Finally, I must tell you again that you can only prove that you love me by studying. You are better than any other woman. I sincerely hope that your academic performance will advance by leaps and bounds, preferably in the top three in your class. I didn't say yes. I know it's a little difficult for you, so you always show me that you can. You are entitled to receive the prize. I love you! Cuier

Я люблю тебя, неразлучны не покинуть, на всю жизнь

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