I have been thinking for a while: I want everything, and I may not be able to do anything well in the end. Because this society is too realistic, no one will ask a person who knows everything. You must consult an expert in a certain field.
Is it broken? Give up? Leave? Finally, I decided that I would only do two things: one is to educate my children well-to be a big V; One is to make money-self-growth. Well, let me see, do these two things. I have done these two things well in my life, and I feel great.
Too much is too hard to digest.
What are the advantages of becoming a big V member?
First, the environment. For me, I have entered a group of positive energy mothers who love children and attach importance to their reading; The so-called environment makes people, that's all. Before I came in, I only understood that there was a mother who attached importance to parent-child reading, but she was not with me and did not feel attached. But when you enter this environment, you will find: wow, people can read thousands of words at the age of six and can read for two or three hours independently; You will find: my god, people have been studying for several years; You will find: dear, people's babies are only over one year old and start studying with their parents; You will find that all the books at home are boxed, and some bookshelves, bedrooms, living rooms and the like have been bought.
Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? It is not necessarily easy for a person to insist on doing one thing; Because you will feel lonely and give up easily, but there are a group of people doing this, and you are embarrassed to be lazy any night.
Second, learning is easier. There is a saying: It is better for a group of people to study for a while than for a lifetime. Two heads are better than one. If you study alone, you won't meet them. Besides Baidu, you just spend more time looking for relevant books. However, when a group of people get together and encounter parenting confusion, they can talk about it in the group. Some people communicate, others communicate, and they can also discuss together.
This is an atmosphere of learning,
Third, educating children themselves is the most important thing. Li Ka-shing said: The success of any career can't make up for the failure of children's education! ! ! I know an excellent mother. She said: For me, educating children is the most important thing.
I understand it this way:
After 20 years, you give the house you earn now to your child, and the child says: It's too old;
Twenty years later, you give the car you earn now to your child, and the child says, Stop joking;
After 20 years, you give the cash you earn now to your child, and the child says: worthless;
therefore
Twenty years ago today, we cultivated children's reading habits. Twenty years later, I have my own house, car and cash. Because my parents gave me the ability to make money 20 years ago. I can do anything by myself! ! !
Fourth, free parenting classes, thousands of mom growth classes. Today, a mother said: I like big V's parenting class best. I don't like it. I don't usually take those classes. At first glance, I think I want to learn, I want to learn. When I just cut two pictures casually, I really want to hear how to talk about "sex" with my children.
I don't think it's difficult to raise a child. There are classes in the big V shop.
As for me, in the process of parenting, I will go to class once and study in a targeted way when I encounter something that can't be solved. Thanksgiving big V shop-let there be no difficult mother in the world.
I think the above four points are the most important. When I came to Big V, I didn't think about making money through Big V, because I thought it was faster than big V shop and much better than big V shop.
Fifth, it is cheaper to buy books. Yes, because our big V store has a fixed red envelope every month; And there is a commission for buying books; ? Just look at the picture. How cheap it is.
Anyway, three books should be 56.80 yuan, and the freight in 5 yuan is 6 1.80 yuan. However, I have a 50 yuan red envelope, 6 1.8 yuan minus 50 yuan. In the end, I only spent 1 1.8 yuan bought three books, and I also received a one-yuan commission for the three books (see red box-member return 1 yuan). That is to say, I only spent 8.8 yuan money on these three books. (I'm embarrassed about this price)
Sixth: sharing classes, or sharing books in big V stores, recommend members, and get a commission.
Some friends become big V members because it is cheap to buy books, share classes, share big V books and recommend members, but I don't think I want to give myself and my children a good environment? Atmosphere is the most important thing, because I understand that investing in myself is the most valuable at any time.
Or maybe more friends think: You can buy books anywhere if you want. Why not choose a cheaper platform where you can learn, and you can also buy your own books with a commission? (I think so, too, haha)