202 1 Experience in educating children (1) People say that parents are the first teachers in life, so good family education is very important. Let's talk about my educational experience:
First, help children to have a correct attitude.
Parents must help their children improve their sense of responsibility for homework, and let them understand that it is his duty as a student to finish homework on time with good quality and quantity every day, just as mom and dad have to do their work wholeheartedly every day at work, and there is no room for bargaining; Parents must also help children to improve their understanding of the importance of homework, so that children can understand that doing homework is an indispensable part of mastering knowledge, a continuation and expansion of learning, an indispensable and important means of consolidating knowledge and improving academic performance, and is not dispensable.
Second, strive to improve children's interest.
Interest is an important factor that affects people's actions. It can make people like doing an activity. However, some children have low interest in learning and poor self-awareness, and they have to deal with teachers and parents every day. They can put it off if they can, and try to avoid it if they can't. For this kind of children's homework problems, parents should start with cultivating and improving their interest in learning, and find ways to change the state that children are forced to learn by adults, so that children can become active learners of "I love learning" and "I want to learn".
Third, do your homework wholeheartedly.
Some children don't concentrate on their homework and have too many "additional actions". Sometimes they will look around and touch this and that, while others like to get together and chat while doing their homework, or like to listen to music and watch TV while eating snacks while doing their homework. Of course, such half-heartedness can't guarantee the quality and efficiency of homework. Therefore, parents should ask their children to concentrate when doing homework, not to do things unrelated to homework, not to put distractions on the desk, and not to disturb their children when they are doing homework: "Did you do well in school today? Did you get the teacher's praise? " "Are you hungry? Do you want to eat snacks? " "How many courses did you take?" How much more? "
Fourth, arrange homework reasonably.
Parents should teach and urge their children to arrange and handle their daily homework reasonably. For example, they should pay close attention to school homework and don't put everything they can do at home. Don't play enough after school, and don't do your homework until your energy consumption is almost the same; Prepare learning tools (tapes, markers, blank paper, books, etc.). ) Before doing your homework in advance, don't wait until you use it to find it temporarily; When you do your homework, you should read the topic clearly and carefully before you start writing. Don't do it until you find that the topic is wrong or you don't do it according to the requirements of the topic. When you encounter problems that you can't do in your homework, you can bypass them first and do other problems that you can do first. Don't stop there and waste unnecessary time.
Fifth, pay attention to the combination of work and rest
Children should use their brains when doing their homework. If children think for a long time without rest, their brains will be tired and slow. At this time, children's learning efficiency will be reduced and the error rate will increase. At this time, if children are given proper rest, the learning efficiency will be improved after fatigue is relieved. Generally speaking, primary school students should not do homework for more than half an hour to 1 hour.
Sixth, strengthen ability training.
Doing homework well and quickly also requires some basic abilities, such as the flexibility of small hand muscles and the coordination of hands and eyes. Some children are "slow" in their homework because of their lack of coordination ability, and they often look up and down when doing homework, which reduces the efficiency and accuracy of reading and writing. For this kind of children, parents should first strengthen the training of their visual perception ability and action coordination ability, and let them do more extracurricular activities such as basketball shooting, table tennis, paper cutting, maze walking, skipping rope and skating.
Seven, review before homework.
The purpose of homework is to make students understand and remember the new words, grammar, definitions, theorems and formulas they have learned correctly, so as to consolidate their knowledge better. The quality of children's homework is based on the mastery of the knowledge imparted by the teacher in class. If the classroom knowledge is not mastered, the content learned is not digested and understood, and the homework will naturally not be done well. Therefore, in order to successfully complete homework, children can be asked to read books and reference materials before doing it, and then start writing homework after reviewing it, instead of writing it at home to save trouble.
Therefore, the author believes that parents should use their own behaviors and correct ways to influence and educate their children, so that they can feel relaxed and happy at home, so as to keep their children healthy and positive.
202 1 experience in educating children (2) I have the following experience in educating children:
First, parents should learn to be qualified parents; Second, parents should do a good job in logistics; Third, parents should give their children a harmonious and enterprising family atmosphere; Fourth, parents should have a good educational concept and never spoil their children. Fifth, parents should be close friends of children.
First of all, parents should keep learning.
Learn the related knowledge of family education, study the psychological and physical development of teenagers, study how to arrange children's diet and rest time reasonably, and improve parents' own quality in an all-round way. For example, parents can read more books and magazines about family education and family health care, and watch more TV lectures about family education, which will be of great help to improve the comprehensive quality of our parents.
Second, do a good job in logistics
For example, children in senior three have a heavy learning task, so they must ensure adequate nutrition, especially breakfast, because after a night's sleep, the food on the first day has been completely digested, their stomachs are completely empty, they are very hungry, and they study for a long time in the morning, and they are basically the main courses, which requires a lot of energy and energy. So they only eat steamed bread and the like to satisfy their hunger, and the children arrive at ten o'clock. Studies have proved that protein food stays in the stomach for about four hours, while starch food stays in the stomach for just over two hours. Therefore, eat some high-protein foods such as eggs, milk and soybean milk for breakfast.
Children's wear should be neat and generous, and must not follow the fashion, and be more ostentatious than famous brands. That will distract children from too much energy, stimulate children's desire to compare with others, pay attention to the result of dressing up, and make children more likely to have problems such as puppy love.
Sleep: High school children have a heavy learning task, so they should have a good rest environment to ensure that their children have enough sleep. A good sleep is an important guarantee for their good study.
Regarding the issue of partial eclipse, I think there is a period of emphasis in one period, which is not the focus of correcting children's partial eclipse in high schools. Parents can take care of their children's tastes and let them eat well while satisfying their children's comprehensive nutrition.
Third, words and deeds are more important than words and deeds, and a positive and harmonious family atmosphere should be created.
Parents should become learning parents, and their learning behavior will exert a subtle influence on their children. Families with primary and secondary school students, it is best not to play cards and mahjong at home often, and it is best not to drink and chat at weddings all day, and to give children a relatively quiet learning environment. If there are differences between husband and wife, it is best not to make noise in front of the children. When the children are not at home, they can sit down and discuss it slowly. In particular, differences in educational concepts should not be debated in front of children. As the saying goes, "people teach their children first, then persuade their husbands", so that there will be a harmonious family atmosphere.
Fourth, parents should have a correct educational concept.
To make children grow up, we must first make children become talents. Not all of them may be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, but they must grow up to be healthy in all aspects of body and mind and become useful people to the country and society. In terms of educational philosophy, I think we should pay attention to the following aspects:
1, be responsible, make clear why you study, and let children know that they are responsible for their families, their parents, their teachers, themselves and the future collective country and society from an early age. They should know that learning opportunities are hard-won, their parents have made efforts for them, and the future society needs a large number of high-quality workers, who shoulder responsibilities in the future society.
2. Have a strong interest in learning. Cultivate hobbies among interests. For a person who loves learning, learning is a pleasure rather than a burden. The future society is a learning society, and people who don't like learning can't do much in the future society.
3. Cultivate children's good will quality. This includes consciousness, decisiveness, toughness, self-control and so on. You will often encounter all kinds of difficulties in your study. You must have the perseverance to overcome difficulties and conquer fortresses, and finally you can move towards new glory. In the process of learning, you will encounter various temptations, such as chatting online and playing games. You need to have good self-control ability to overcome these temptations and devote yourself to your study.
Fifth, parents should be close friends of children.
We should pay attention to protecting children's self-esteem, helping them build up their self-confidence, educating them to learn to understand and care about others, giving them good interpersonal relationships, giving themselves a harmonious learning environment, paying attention to their psychological development and helping them to pass adolescence smoothly.
Pay attention to children's psychological development. Some problems should be subtly passed on to children in the usual small talk, instead of waiting until the problems are discovered before adopting rude and arbitrary education methods. For example, the problem of puppy love, parents can show their attitude to this problem when watching TV or talking about the problem of puppy love of children of acquaintances. A teacher once said when educating students that the fruit of love is beautiful, but the immature fruit is bitter. The student period is the golden age of long knowledge. Although the children in this period have grown taller and looked like adults, their hearts are not fully mature, and everyone's future development is still unknown. At this time, falling in love is easy to handle, which will not only affect your studies, but also cast a shadow over your future love life.
Don't blame children in front of outsiders. It's neither good nor right, let alone settling old scores. Especially don't blame children in front of classmates. Put yourself in others' shoes. How would you feel if you were accused by your superiors in public? Everyone wants to be understood, praised and respected by others. For children's test scores, it is normal to realize that there are fluctuations. We shouldn't always complain about low rankings and other problems. Instead, it is necessary to help children analyze what the problem is after the exam, whether it is sloppy, or whether there is no reasonable allocation of time during the exam, which leads to the final problem. In addition, parents and family members care about and understand each other, and neighbors should help each other and live in harmony. It will have a good educational effect on children. Educate children to learn tolerance and understanding, so that children can have a good relationship with classmates and teachers and a harmonious and happy learning environment.
There are still many places to pay attention to. For example, parents should often communicate with teachers so that children's problems can be discovered in time and eliminated in the bud.
Don't spoil children, most of them are only children now. Parents care about their children, and children will pamper themselves and care more about their children in life, but they should not be soft-hearted in their studies. When studying, you should concentrate on your study, and don't send something to eat and drink later, which will affect your study concentration.
202 1 Experience in educating children (3) Speaking of children's education, I really don't know where to start. I feel that this should be a very warm and relaxed topic, but it is also very serious.
Children are parents' treasures. As a parent, I hope my children can excel and make a difference in the future. However, children nowadays are almost all only children. Our parents want to give the best things to their children and meet all their requirements as much as possible. Therefore, the behavior of children, whether right or wrong, excessive connivance, excessive connivance, will make children develop some bad habits.
Therefore, for the education of children around 5 years old, I think we should start with "habits", analyze the characteristics of children, pay special attention to some subtle changes of children, help and guide children with correct methods, and create a warm and good environment for children, so as to cultivate their good living ability, study and behavior habits, and cultivate their self-improvement, self-confidence, unity and healthy thoughts.
My xx is almost five years old. As a young parent, I don't have much experience in the process of children's education, but in the process of growing up with children, I think the following aspects still need our parents' attention:
First, seriously answer children's questions and stimulate children's curiosity
Children's curiosity is the greatest. She is full of curiosity about anything new. When a child asks questions, parents should discuss things around her in standard language instead of naive language and teach her the names and vocabulary of all kinds of things. Children have the most problems. Parents should carefully understand the questions raised by their children and try to answer the real questions raised by their children. Don't perfunctory children, it will suppress their curiosity. But don't rush to instill too much knowledge into your child that she can't understand yet. When I was walking and chatting with my daughter, I accidentally mentioned the word "terror". My daughter asked me what "terror" meant, and I told her that terror means terrible. It was just after the rain and there was a lot of water on the road. My daughter immediately said to me, "Mom, this road is terrible." I didn't react at that time and asked her why she said this road was terrible. The daughter replied, "This road is full of water. Do you feel terrible? Is it terrible? " I smiled.
Second, give more encouragement and guidance to children and create a warm and harmonious living environment for them.
Most of our parents realize that children's imitation ability is very strong. Influenced by their surroundings, they often imitate people or things around them. Therefore, I think the family living environment, parents' words and deeds, behavior habits will have a great impact on children, that is, "teaching by example is better than teaching by example", so a good living environment and parents' role models will be a kind of "silent education" for children.
Therefore, our parents should set an example in treating their children. I think our parents should straighten their seats first. We can't stand on our high horse and make our children listen to you. We should be children's good friends. I often reflect on myself in the process of getting along with my daughter. I try my best to adjust the way and tone of talking to my child so that she thinks we are good friends. When she meets something she doesn't know, I will patiently answer it for her. At the same time, I will add "Next time you have to tell me something I don't know", although it is just a simple sentence, which makes her feel that the dialogue between us is friendly and equal, so that the child will tell you everything she thinks and you can understand her better. At the same time, we will create a cheerful atmosphere. Secondly, we should always get along with children with a positive attitude and a happy mood. No matter how many unhappy things we have, we can't vent them on our children, so that children can feel that their parents are smiling all the time, and our life is happy and beautiful. We should set a good example for children, encourage and guide them to cultivate self-confidence, love learning and form good habits. When children encounter some difficulties and impatience, we should not criticize them too much. Although I know that the child is so bad, I will patiently calm the child down, then guide her to find ways to eliminate difficulties and solve problems, and encourage her to be confident and not be scared by difficulties. I think my daughter has made great progress in this respect than before, but we still need constant guidance and encouragement.
The same is true in learning. I didn't push her too hard, but guided her. Coercion sometimes backfires. Just like children learn to read, schools begin to teach children to read from the beginning. As soon as we got home, we asked her to read the words she had learned, deliberately letting her know more words, and she showed some impatience. I gradually realized that my method was wrong, so we created a literate atmosphere for her at home. We talk to her more, let her see and listen, and not only let her know the words, but also the meaning of the words. I feel that she will gradually become interested and know more words.
Third, let children develop the good habit of keeping promises.
Let the children know that everyone should be trustworthy, be a trustworthy person, do what they promise others, and let her know the benefits and importance of trustworthiness. I won't want to do what my daughter promised, and I will be shameless. I said to her, "You can go back on your word, and your mother can go back on her word in the future, which is only fair." As soon as she heard that her mother was going to break her word, she began to go back on her word and said, "no, mom, don't break your word. I don't want to break my word either." Not a good baby. " Parents are role models for children, and their every move has a great influence on children. If children want to do well, parents must do well first.
These are just some usual educational experiences. Early childhood education is a complex systematic project. Every child is a sunrise full of hope, and every child is a pillar of the future society. I believe that as long as our parents can pay attention to methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, our children will be successful and brilliant.
202 1 Experience in educating children (4) Children are the treasure in every parent's heart, and we all expect them to thrive. In the process of educating children, besides teachers, parents also play an important role. Family education is as important as school education. My daughter is four and a half years old and just went to kindergarten. I have four profound experiences:
1. A warm and harmonious family environment is the source of children's healthy growth.
Home is the main activity place for children, and the quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's physical and mental health. Parents must not always quarrel with their tongues in front of their children, which will make them feel fear, inferiority or even disgust. Not only will it alienate the feelings between children and parents, but it may also lead to extreme behavior among peers. Giving children a safe, comfortable and warm home is the first step to teach them. Family members should love each other and live in harmony. In this regard, we use practical actions to let our daughter feel the warmth of the family.
It is very important to cultivate children's good moral character step by step.
Our daughter started kindergarten at the age of 3 and entered the formal education system. We should lay a good foundation for her to take the first step in life and cultivate some good qualities in her life, so as to get rid of the common problem of "self-centered" contemporary only child. Let her understand the truth of respecting elders; Tell her that it is very happy to help others and let her know that she should help others; When playing with friends, give and take and so on. In my spare time, I often play games with my daughter. I said the last sentence: "My sister fell." The daughter added, "I'll help her up right away." ..... enjoy it.
3. Let the children "come by themselves" and cultivate their hands-on ability and self-care ability.
The importance adults attach to children's education directly affects whether children will develop good behavior habits. Whether adults attach importance to it or not, and whether the educational methods are correct or not, the first is the concept. Some parents want their children to succeed. They are under increasing pressure in their studies and take more care of their lives, but they leave their children's good behavior habits behind and let themselves go. I think it is particularly important for children to form a good habit of loving labor. Let children participate in the labor within their power, which can not only cultivate children's working habits and hard-working morality, but also cultivate children's good qualities and skills such as independence, responsibility, self-confidence and willpower. So I often ask my daughter to do some housework within her power. Such as washing face, combing hair, brushing teeth, cleaning toys, dressing, making bed, etc. Of course, children often can't do their work well, so we can't judge them by the standards of adults. As long as the child has made efforts, parents should fully affirm it. This is a challenge for them, and it requires children to make great efforts.
4. Make children less stressed and simpler.
After studying, we should pay attention to let the children relax properly, set aside an hour every night to tell stories and play games, and use this time to understand the children's spiritual needs, often have heart-to-heart talks with children, observe the children's physical and mental changes at any time, be good at using the little things in life, open their hearts, learn to look at themselves with appreciation, and be good at capturing the bright spots in her body. Don't compare your children with other people's children, compare your children's present with the past. Looking at improvement vertically, we can find and affirm any achievements made by children in time, let them feel our praise and encouragement, and improve their self-confidence and good study habits.
Children's hearts are sensitive. What kind of seeds are sown, what kind of flowers and fruits will be harvested. Therefore, I sincerely hope that my parents will sow the seeds of beauty, kindness and friendliness. Let beautiful, kind and friendly flowers bloom in children's hearts. Don't let the "ambitious" psychology become the pressure of children, let nature take its course and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, so that children can study easily. Believe that gold always shines!
202 1 Experience in educating children (5) Educating children is basically the most concerned topic for all parents. Family education is the first classroom for children to be enlightened when they grow up. Children's personality, hobbies, moral cultivation, and even going to society when they grow up are closely related to their parents' feelings and educational methods. Therefore, no matter how busy you are, parents expect you to give your children more care and more companionship. How to educate children? I did use the following items.
First, quality education.
It is necessary to strengthen quality education for children, such as being clean, not swearing, not jaywalking and crossing crosswalks. Usually, the words and deeds of family members will also affect children, so our parents should also manage their words and deeds.
Second, let children eat healthily.
A healthy diet can not only make children healthy, but also make their emotions more stable. Whether it's dinner or snacks, we should try to follow healthy principles, such as low-fat, low-sugar, fresh and balanced diet.
Third, always hug the child and give the child time to play by himself.
I read on the Internet that Thomas Armstrong, an American scholar of children's education, pointed out that free play is healthier and more beneficial to preschool children than planned activities. Parents should avoid cramming their children's time into various activities and courses. All children need some free and casual play time. Only in this way can their imaginations be freely developed, and they can leisurely watch spiders weave webs, study how fireflies glow ... and explore their curious world at their natural speed. Maybe, sometimes you should slow down, put aside your schedule and enjoy life with your children's rhythm.
Fourth, encourage children to exercise more.
Playing ball games, cycling and swimming with children ... Doing more exercise can not only exercise children's physical fitness, but also make them more cheerful. Adhering to a dynamic life can moderately relieve children's stress and emotions, make children like themselves, have a more positive body image, and find pleasure and a sense of accomplishment from sports.
Fifth, listen to the children carefully.
Nothing can make children feel cared for more than listening attentively. Want to be a better listener? Don't listen with only one ear. When the child is talking to you, try to stop what you are doing and listen to him attentively. Listen to the child patiently. Don't interrupt, help him express himself in a hurry or let him finish his sentence quickly, even if you have heard what he said many times. It is the best time to listen when you accompany your child to school or put him to bed.
Sixth, teach children to solve problems.
Every step from learning to tie your shoelaces to crossing the street by yourself is a milestone for children to become more independent. When children find that they have the ability to solve the problems they are dealing with, it can bring them happiness and a sense of accomplishment. When he meets obstacles, such as being laughed at by his playmates or unable to work out a puzzle, there are several steps you can take to help him: 1. Confirm his problem. Let him describe the solution he thought of. 3. Find out the steps to solve the problem. Decided to let him solve the problem by himself or provide some help. Make sure that he can get the help he needs.
Seven, teach children to care about others
A happy child needs to feel that he has some meaningful connection with others and understand his meaning to others. Cultivating this feeling can help children have more contact with others. You can sort out some old toys with your child and donate them to charity with him to help homeless children. Children can also be encouraged to participate in some volunteer activities at school. Experts point out that even at a very young age, you can get happiness from helping others. And form the habit of helping others.
Eight, stimulate children's inner artistic potential
Exposing children to music, art, dance and other activities can still enrich their inner world. When children dance to music or doodle with brushes, it is actually a way for children to express their inner world and feelings. Children like painting, dancing or playing music, and they will feel more satisfied with themselves.
Nine, correctly treat children's self-perfectionism psychology
We all expect our children to show their best, but sometimes we are too eager to correct or improve their performance. For example, we hate that they don't clean the table, but simply clean it. Or correct them. They must put things in the right place. Demanding perfection in everything will weaken children's self-confidence and courage not to be afraid of making mistakes. The next time you can't help but want to get involved and try to help your child do things better, you might as well think about it first: "Is this related to health or safety? Ten years later, is it still so serious? " Then let the children do it!