What can parents do to give an ignorant child a quality education?
(1) Know the role of self-examination in front of children.
If a child doesn't admit his mistake after making it, it may be that he really doesn't know where he is wrong. After all, the child is still young. For example, many children are particularly excited at night, making noise or shouting in the house.
We can tell children that neighbors fall asleep, which will affect their sleep and lead to conflicts between neighbors. Even it is illegal to teach children calmly. We should do our best. We can accept punishment instead of children and let them sincerely admit that they have made mistakes.
(2) Deep breathing makes you rational.
Children must have an atmosphere of reflection. We just need to tell them that his actions are incorrect, and it is better to let the children solve the rest themselves than to talk glibly and point fingers.
Suppress your temper, don't get angry with children casually, even if you don't say a word, it can also play a good teaching effect. Too much anger often makes children rebel. Only by calmly and strictly reasoning with children can children hear their own voices.
(3) Pay attention to protecting children's "self-esteem" when criticizing in public.
There are many ways to teach children, and beating and cursing education is the least desirable one, especially not to "beat and scold" children outside. After returning home, I said that it is easier to make children accept the responsibility of wrong behavior in an appropriate way than to teach or ask them in public.
(4) Don't expose children's shortcomings and tell them what to do.
We should only talk about the present mistakes, not always talk about the children's past mistakes. This will only aggravate the child's antipathy, aggravate the child's troubles, and have no influence on the child's future study and daily life. Exposing wrong teaching methods will stimulate children's dignity and make them unhappy.
Teaching children is our lifelong skill, to learn, to understand their thoughts, to know them, to guide them, and to let them grow up in a harmonious environment. Only by staying away from the education of beating and cursing can children be healthier and happier and develop excellent personality. When a child makes a mistake, it is also a frustrating experience for the child from a certain angle, and it is also a valuable growth experience for the child. We just need to guide the children and let them know where they are wrong and how to do the best. We firmly believe that children will get better and better!