1. Shut up. Many parents have learned a lot of painful lessons before they realize that their self-righteous communication often just blocks their children's ears and mouths. Parents often make the mistake of lecturing their children, and a long sermon usually begins with "when I was your age".

2. avoid angry words. Parents are always concerned about whether this is good for their children, so no parent can keep calm all the time. The angrier parents are about something, the more likely they are to say something they regret.

3. Listen to your children. This sentence means that you should never talk until the child shuts up. If you lose your temper before the child finishes speaking, you should apologize.

4. After the child has finished speaking, repeat what he said in your own words and ask him if he really meant it. You must understand everything the child says before you can express your opinion or take action. Glad to answer for you! Hope to adopt!