However, fathers seem to have no role in parenting, but in fact, different fathers also have different views on parenting. The four dads in Growing Up with You have different ideas about educating their children.
By comparing the parenting views of the four Bao dads, we will find a very realistic phenomenon: the lower the class, the lower the requirements for children.
Gu Jiawei is the highest grade among the four dads and the one with the highest requirements for children. Compared with other family fathers, he is simply different.
Gu Jiawei always lets her daughter be the first in the new moon. On the open day of kindergarten, Xinyue was furious with his wife because he lost to Li. When Lin thinks New Moon is excellent, he is always dissatisfied. The winning organization demoted her because of the absence of the new moon. Lin felt unfair, but he felt that the new moon was not enough.
Gu Jiawei's view of parenting is a typical wolf education, and his view of parenting is actually related to his class.
Gu Jiawei lives in a big villa, runs a company as a boss, deals with all kinds of excellent people, and has certain economic strength and social status. In the eyes of outsiders, he is a successful person with a successful career, but who knows that successful people haggle over every ounce, eat instant noodles in luxury offices and live in big villas, but don't want to spend money on nannies and eat a pot ... this is related to his origin.
Gu Jiawei was born in poverty. Everything he has now is made by himself. I'm afraid only he knows the pain of finally achieving class leap by his own efforts. Therefore, Gu Jiawei, who knows that happiness is hard-won, will try his best to retain it, but at the same time he is unwilling to lose his dignity in this class.
Buying a bag is not for my wife, but for my own dignity. He lied that everyone's mother-in-law is a university professor, but also for their own dignity. Gu Jiawei not only sincerely cares for his daughter, but also protects his dignity. How could his daughter lose to those children who are not as good as him?
I believe there are many people like Gu Jiawei. The higher their class, the higher their demands on their children. Because they should not only strive to continue their glory, but also safeguard their dignity.
Actually, why bother? It is reasonable to ask children to be excellent, but if it is too extreme, it is much ado about nothing.
Unlike Gu Jiawei, who asked children to get everything first, Xi Bin only asked his son to grow up healthily and happily. When Xi Bin was shocked by his son's somersault performance, he still advocated happy education for his son.
Wang really lived up to expectations. He is a good boy with a kind heart, but his academic performance is not good.
Xi Bin's view on parenting is also related to his class status.
Xi Bing belongs to the second category of four dads. He has a well-paid job, married a wife with similar status, has a house and a car, can afford a nanny, has good economic conditions, has a harmonious relationship between husband and wife and has a lovely son. Although he is not rich, he is also a winner in life and has a happy life.
Under such conditions, Xi Bin enjoys his own life and naturally hopes that his son can grow up happily, instead of "carrying the burden" from an early age.
His concept of parenting has been recognized by Xiao Yuan. In today's competitive social environment, many parents have parenting anxiety, fearing that their children will lose at the starting line, and then let them go to various courses. Finally, children are tired and parents are tired.
However, I forgot to set up a correct outlook on children, cultivate good habits, teach children the truth of being a man, and let them grow up healthily physically and mentally. This is the education that really benefits children for life.
Although Gu Jiawei and Xi Bin's views on parenting are not absolutely right or wrong, they are also their own subjective thoughts on educating their children. Compared with them, jiang bo is a father who has no opinion on parenting.
Jiang Bo married He Jinghua, who was married for the second time, and lived in the house of He Jinghua's parents. He is a son-in-law, has no good job and has no right to speak at home. He only taught Jiang Siyuan once and was scolded by his grandfather.
In jiang bo's family, He Jinghua plays a leading role in children's education, and he is beside him. Usually, no matter what, wait until the child makes a mistake and then educate and let nature take its course; He Jinghua discipline children, can't control the fire, is responsible for Indiana, mixing mud.
In fact, jiang bo himself is not mature enough. He sometimes worries He Jinghua like a child. What does such a father expect of his children?
Xiao Yuan thinks it's bad for enami. Fathers play an important role in children's growth. It is not only possible for the mother to be unilaterally responsible for the education of her children, but also for the children to blur the role of the father and become surly and out of control.
Therefore, parents should actively educate their children and participate in their growth, which can not only establish their prestige and cultivate their feelings, but also educate their children in time and correctly to achieve more goals. Why not?
Xiang Li is the worst of the four dads. He does nothing but gamble. He didn't make money from his ex-wife. In this way, he will naturally not invest in children's education. His education of children is very poor.
My son is going to cram school. He thinks it's a waste of money. My son can't go to a key primary school. What he wants is to ask the headmaster for compensation. He left his son at home and went gambling ... It is the misfortune of all children to meet such parents, but fortunately with his mother Li.
Parents should take up the responsibility of educating and raising their children, or they will be inferior to animals if they are born without raising them.
What fathers want from their children is actually what they want from themselves, and it also reflects their social class. It is said that men are the pillars of the family, while women are, at least, will spare no effort to treat their children well.