Now living conditions are good, but children's education is getting worse and worse, and many people's family conditions are average. And children are almost obedient to all kinds of accommodation, the reason is to make up for the lack of toys when they were children. However, this educational idea will only make children more at a loss in food and clothing, and even cultivate lazy, ostentatious and vain people, which may delay their lives and even ruin their father's bright future.
On February 7, a boy of 14 years old in Shijiazhuang had to go through the epidemic prevention and control checkpoint to get the courier. He clashed with the staff on duty, became angry from embarrassment, kicked down the fence and shouted, "My dad is from the county party Committee, hit me!" "
Afterwards, his father came to apologize and compensate for the loss. After investigation, his father is indeed a member of the county party Committee, but only a general staff member.
Although it's no big deal, children are so arrogant at an early age. Are parents too spoiled at ordinary times?
Someone once said, "Parents are the best mentors for children."
I'm impressed.
Parents teach by example, children see it in their eyes and learn it in their hearts.
Do parents also show superiority in their daily life? It will make children feel that the county party Committee is an official, which is amazing.
This may be a problem that parents should seriously consider afterwards.
Lead by example, parents are like a mold. What kind of people parents are and what kind of people children are when they grow up.
After this incident, I can't help but recall a popular sentence on the Internet: "My father is Li Gang".
At 201010162140 pm, on the campus of Hebei university, Li was drinking and driving his car across the campus quickly. Even after hitting two girls, he kept running over another girl.
When I returned, I was stopped by the security guard. After getting off the bus, I didn't ask about the injured, but I was even more arrogant: "Look at my car! My father is Li Gang and he has the ability to sue. "
This malicious incident caused two female college students to die and seriously injured, and the families of the victims were heartbroken.
And Li's father is indeed the deputy director of Baoding Public Security Bureau. What's even more surprising is that it also involves Li Gang owning many luxury houses and handling too many fake cases. In the end, his son went to prison, and his father resigned and ran away from home, which was not worth the loss and hurt others.
Rousseau, a French educator, once said, "To abolish a child is to obey him."
Without a smooth life, parents can't experience the ups and downs of life instead of their children.
Life can't be smooth sailing, and experiencing setbacks and hardships will make a person's heart stronger.
It also tells us that insatiable people, taking advantage of privileges, will eventually get burned and what goes around comes around comes around.
There is also an addict Eva Li Tianyi, the son of a first-class singer Li Shuangjiang and a dream pigeon, and a son in his later years, which is quite precious.
The couple once said on the "Lu Yu You Yue" program that the child has a water chestnut and a personality. This is nature and should not be bound. It should be left to its own devices.
Before long, the consequences of stocking came out.
20 1 1 September, Li Tianyi detention education 1 year.
Not long after I came out, something even more unexpected happened.
2065438+On February 22nd, 2003, Li Tianyi was detained on suspicion of gang rape. His mother has been running around defending her son's innocence, saying that the truth is always in the hands of a few people.
In the end, the eyes of the masses are discerning and the law is just.
Li Tianyi was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment 10 year.
In fact, Li Tianyi studied fine arts at an early age, piano at the age of 4 and calligraphy at the age of 8, and won many prizes. Although he is versatile, he has forgotten the most important lesson in life.
Beyond the golden jade, the defeat is among them.
No matter how talented a person is, his heart will be dirty and arrogant, which will eventually hurt the innocent, even harm the society and ruin his life.
In fact, Li Shuangjiang also has an eldest son, Li He, who has been with his ex-wife since the divorce. Now he is the capable backbone of the organization, with a good heart and a low profile, and is recognized and liked by colleagues and leaders.
Being the sons of Li Shuangjiang, why are they so different?
Although parents have high social status, wealth and power, they are too fond of their children. Taking fame and fortune as the sole purpose of education will only make their children become ungrateful and soulless overbearing scum.
I remember in primary school, the teacher used a ruler to beat disobedient students. As a result, the thin man jumped up and hit the teacher many times. His aggressive manner frightened the teacher. Later, I learned that he was also the king of the family. His parents were dissatisfied and threatened to jump off the building. Now he has grown up, and he is in his thirties. He is unmarried and old.
He even complained that his parents shouldn't have given birth to him and made him so poor.
The poor inherit the wind.
Therefore, the deterioration of children has nothing to do with family conditions, and parents are the biggest responsible persons.
As the old saying goes, "If a son doesn't teach, his father will make a mistake."
Writer Chi Li once said: "I found that children have always been the same, but parents have changed a lot. Nowadays, too many parents are only willing to spend money on their children, but they are not willing to spend time, energy and thought. "
Although the living conditions are good now, children are not worried about food and clothing, and extracurricular tutoring and various interest classes are also overwhelmed. Children cannot lose at the starting line.
However, I have never listened to children's voices seriously. There was a news before that the child even thought that his parents didn't love him, but only loved his grades and awards.
Even some students failed the exam or fell in love, and even had the idea of suicide.
Every day we let him study, that is, study. We never think that they are independent individuals and have their own thoughts.
I always think it's good for them to give them what they want.
In fact, sometimes children are our teachers. They are children of 1 time, and we are parents of 1 time. They sum up their shortcomings and grow up separately.
Therefore, the real enrichment is the enrichment of the spiritual world: (1) Enrichment is to cultivate children's ideological independence and self-confidence, and they should learn to face and overcome them calmly regardless of prosperity or difficulties; (2) The real enrichment is to cultivate a kind and grateful heart, distinguish right from wrong, understand etiquette, respect others and love yourself;
(3) The real enrichment is to cultivate lofty ideals and work hard for them, rather than wasting time for fame and fortune, pleasure and vanity.