In our life, do you often see the following phenomena:
If you are troubled in the process of educating your children, or don't know what kind of education is better for your children, then the following content will help you. Please read carefully and attentively.
In the process of educating children, we often mention the word "born in a family". So what are the specific problems of parents and what is the impact on their children's education?
We divide people's personality into four kinds of temperament: fire, wind, water and earth.
If you don't know the type of children, it is easy to have problems in education.
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If you don't know the type of yourself and your child, you may have been a gifted child, but your wrong education method ruined it.
If this child has been treated as a disease, will the future of this child be very difficult?
So as parents, if we can understand our children, can we teach them in accordance with their aptitude? Will our children have a better future and a happier life? Are parents more relaxed and happy in the process of raising children?
Let's talk about the characteristics of the four temperament groups in detail to help us better understand ourselves and our children.
A passionate person is very optimistic, enthusiastic, brave and quick-witted; Patience; Easy to get angry and irritable; Never challenge the impossible;
The more difficulties you encounter, the stronger you will be. You always say, come, I'll do it. ……
People with strong personality have a bad memory; Don't calm down, don't worry, it's easy to go astray, especially vulnerable to external influences; Different words and deeds; Procrastination is very easy; Very clever and changeable; Very fond of playing; Very talkative; Do things rashly; In essence, he attaches great importance to emotion and is sentimental. ...
People with water-based personality are more procrastinators, who are slow when they can do things and procrastinate when they can; Especially serene, soft, especially cautious and calm, looks a little indifferent, as if irrelevant, hanging high; Also very conservative, often being a peacemaker; The easiest to listen to, taciturn, patient and persistent; Very resistant to new things in learning, very dislike initiative, and have requirements for quality of life; I like inner peace and don't like being broken by others. ...
People in the soil are always bitter in their hearts, as if all the sufferings in the world have been eaten by you; I feel that life is very serious, it is easy to live in the past, and it is easy to be anxious and painful; Walk carefully with heavy steps; Especially easy to be anxious and pessimistic, easy to live in my own world, very careful, stubborn and dedicated; Inner silence is implicit; Very patient ...
So how should different types of children be treated?
1. Treat the angry child, give him more affirmation and praise, and challenge him according to his goals at the right time.
2. Treat children with wind, you should be gentle and kind, don't scare, intimidate or lose your temper, otherwise it will lead to children's lack of self-confidence.
3. To treat children with water orientation, we should practice expressing inner emotions and express them more.
4. Treat indigenous children, let them have a mission since childhood, and let them see people who are more bitter than him. They were born to be kind to all beings. At this time, they stopped complaining and suffering. He felt that he had to help them, and his sense of mission and value came out.
In fact, each of us has four kinds of temperament. You should learn how to bring your own characteristics into your life and balance fire, wind, water and soil. This is very important for you, especially to observe children. This is the most important tool for observing children, and it is of great help to you in the process of educating children.
If you don't understand, you will use the wrong method in the process of educating your child, which will cause serious harm to your child's family, and you need to spend a lot of energy to adjust later.