Two days ago, I saw friends who care about each other discussing a topic in Weibo, saying that I have been paying attention to bloggers with different interests, different horizons, different views and opinions on issues, and even different opinions.

Because he thinks it's important for him to have a look at different opinions.

But recently he began to reflect on this practice, because watching too much will be more or less affected and lead himself astray. Then several other friends said that they did the same.

02

I thought about it, and since my trip to Weibo, I've been thinking the other way around. Different points of interest, different horizons can be.

However, there are different views on key issues, and bloggers with different views are mainly blocked or shut down.

Even readers who don't agree, if they are only occasionally different, if they don't agree with me many times, I will help ta get rid of the concern.

This may be related to my early work as a moderator on a particularly large Internet site. I know my personality very well.

03

A person who has his own ideas, if he listens to different opinions all the year round, will either be soft-hearted and eventually imperceptible.

Either you are determined and completely unaffected. Then there are endless arguments and endless quarrels. The more you look at each other, the less pleasing to the eye.

It is better to be a stranger and forget each other.

I thought about this question clearly a long time ago. I insist on playing online just to meet like-minded friends.

04

In the current network environment, it is not easy to listen to different opinions. Just go out and visit other people's websites and comment areas, and this wish will be satisfied.

Or, if you want to broaden your horizons and listen to different opinions, you can really buy a book on systematic research in related fields.

I can watch it calmly. May really benefit a lot.

I heard a sentence recently, and I like it very much: the world of adults is only screening, not education.

Milosz also said:

"Prejudice is sometimes necessary and positive, because it helps you keep your energy. We can't always stick out our tongues and test countless information around us. Prejudice lets us bypass them. "

05

People should allow their own prejudices and know their own prejudices, so that you can allow yourself to bypass some information.

This is to save your precious time. Use it on what you really want in life.

As long as your prejudice doesn't hurt people, it is actually harmless.

In real life, if you meet people with different aspirations, even if they are wrong and sorry for you, you have no obligation to seriously educate them and help them make progress.

Just sift it down and it's over.

06

Of course, I'm not the only one screening others. I've been screened out several times.

For example, I send messages to someone occasionally. Suddenly I found that the other party had blacked me out.

I never ask why.

The adult world, when screened out, only accepts, not pursues.