First, teach children to be human.

In short, parents lead by example, because parents are their children's first teachers.

Second, a good family relationship is warm and harmonious, and a loving family can cultivate a loving child.

Third, only with democracy can we "stand on our own feet", respect the opinions of everyone in our family and express our own opinions.

Fourth, the educational goals should be consistent and the pace should be consistent. No matter who is in the family, we must unite to educate our children.

Five, strict, no lack of love. Strictness does not conflict with love. They can be strict with their children's life, behavior and study, and have fun when they should play.

6. Being a good friend of a child can only establish a good relationship with the child if you regard yourself as a friend of the child, put yourself in the other's shoes and communicate with the child more.

First, teach children to be human.

When children know the world, they often see their parents.

Parents' words and deeds are expressing their attitude towards life. Parents are always the first to be unconditionally recognized by their children. Therefore, as parents, we should set an example in everything, and have a healthy image in the hearts of children.

If parents are greedy, selfish, caring, bullying, boasting, breaking the law and discipline, and lacking love.

This kind of image is printed in children's minds, which is not only indelible, but also an incentive for emotional obstacles with parents in the future. This is also one of the reasons for the morbid personality of children, such as self-pity, autism and self-abandonment. He is ashamed of having such parents and feels inferior.

In addition, parents should dare to admit their mistakes in front of their children. It is the most stupid and dishonest to argue irrationally and even try to curb your children by driving.

Form an inferiority complex and closed character from the face. Therefore, we should shape our own image and be the "first teacher" of children.

Second, good family relations.

In the family, the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law, brother and sister ... has a great relationship with the formation of children's personality.

Therefore, as parents, we must respect and honor the elderly, treat our brothers and sisters with tolerance and help, and understand and trust each other.

Only on this basis can children obtain stable and warm family happiness, form a warm and cheerful personality, and learn to care and trust from it.

Third, only democracy can lead to "self-reliance"

The healthy growth of children needs the red dilemma of family democracy, and balancing weight is the life of family democracy.

Therefore, children must be respected in the family and treated as equal people.

Respect his ideas and listen to his opinions carefully, even if their opinions are naive. We should fully trust our children, believe in his ambition and his judgment of right and wrong.

In the face of children's improper views, parents should listen to the truth and express their concern and love like adult friends. Only in this way can children living in a democratic atmosphere have a sense of self-reliance, be good at independent thinking, be good at observation, be diligent and eager to learn, and their self-confidence and independence will follow.

Fourth, the educational goals should be consistent and the pace should be consistent.

Families need to have a unified "positioning" for their children's growth goals.

Because each child's personality and hobbies are different, the opinions of the whole family may be biased. Therefore, we need to study the needs of society, combine our own growth experience, and give our children a "positioning" on the basis of family unity and understanding, so as to truly achieve harmony and keep pace.

Ideological unity is particularly important, especially when grandparents reduce their contact with society. Educating children must be consistent with other members and try not to deny others' education because of their own education.

Pay attention to the horizontal connection of education, so that the whole family education can form a joint force, and children will also form tolerance and acceptance. A person's good character.

Five, strict, no lack of love.

There is no doubt that parents all over the world love their children. Not loving is more pathetic than not loving, and there are many examples of doing bad things with good intentions.

Parents' love for their children cannot be just the need of their own emotional expression. If they vent their feelings, they will be satisfied. This kind of love should be an educational act, and it is the emotional input of generations to children's growth.

To a large extent, it is also the driving force for children to complete certain tasks and the external driving force to supervise their implementation.

Although the family is another classroom for children, there can be no textbooks and teaching in school education.

Therefore, it is very necessary for family life to follow. The core point of this "order" is to arrange family life reasonably according to the needs of children's growth, and the whole activities of children at home should be clearly included in the plan for children to understand.

The significance of this arrangement makes them gradually participate consciously and form a habit.

The ultimate goal of strictness is to enhance the educational effect, so in the process of enforcing strictness, it is particularly important to have clear goals and implement them.

If the requirements for children are correct and appropriate, we must persist, especially some habits that need to be cultivated for a long time. Persistence itself is victory.

Strict requirements for children and wise expression of love are also important ways to cultivate children's endurance, adapt to collective life and be bold when things go wrong.

Sixth, make friends with children.

It's easiest to be "strict father Mu Yan" in front of children, but if you just wrap yourself up with "majesty", you will stay away from the nuclear.

A famous psychologist believes that parents let their children express all their feelings through language, whether positive or negative, which is the greatest protection for their children.

This is also the first requirement for parents and children to make friends. They should sit down and listen to their children's stories and communicate with them. Sometimes, as long as you listen to the child quietly, let the child feel that you really understand his thoughts and realize that parents respect him, the child will be satisfied.

This is also an important factor for children to form bold self-confidence, that is, not giving in to authority and respecting the good character of others.