Speaking of children's education, every parent has a lot to say. Although the family situation is different and the education methods are different, the purpose is to hope that their children can grow up happily and healthily. As parents, how should we educate our children? Have bought many books, bought many CDs and consulted many colleagues? . Children grow up day by day, and their grades are gradually stable, but I still dare not relax.
It is very necessary to develop good study habits, which should be reflected in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books. When a child was young, he cultivated and exercised his literacy ability early, which laid a very good foundation for his future study. When the child is older, we will help him form the habit of reading and let him spare some time to read every day. In our family, we can often see pictures of a family of three reading books. Besides, buy him as many books as possible from the bookstore. June 1st? Gifts for Children's Day and Spring Festival are all kinds of interesting or beneficial books. After a long time, children like reading. I have also developed good reading habits. It also played a great role in promoting learning.
From the time my child goes to school, I pay attention to cultivating his study habits and finish the homework left by the teacher after going home every day. Preview the rest before learning the new lesson. Communicate with his teacher in time to help children develop good study habits.
In family life, always pay attention to the formation of habits, pack up the toys you have played, wash your face and brush your teeth before going to bed at night. Sometimes, if a child wants to be lazy, tell him the truth and tell him that it is impossible. Slowly, he recognized this behavior, and the habit naturally formed.
To educate children, our generation of parents need to learn and inherit the traditional wisdom of the Chinese nation. In the past, I was very insecure, that is, I didn't establish a stable and reliable overall value system to educate my children. During this period, in the process of intermittent contact with traditional enlightenment classics, I reflected on my own behavior ethics and the various manifestations of children's growth. I feel that I have found the clue and direction to educate my children, and I need to grow up with my children under the influence of learning traditional culture.
Don't ask too much of your child, give him some room for free development, observe his advantages and disadvantages, and then give guidance. I think we have all been children and should know what children like. Too much preaching is better than guiding children with our own actions. What children are asked to do, adults must first do it themselves. For example, when my son was watching TV, he unconsciously walked in front of the TV as soon as he saw the wonderful part. I corrected him and he scolded him at once. You always surf the internet every day, and your eyes will break if you play for a long time. ? In the face of children's doubts, I have to correct myself first and influence my children with my own behavior. I told the child: Look, mom has corrected it. It's only been online for a while You should also correct it! ? At this time, the child will readily accept your suggestion.
In order to broaden our horizons and cultivate children's various interests. In his spare time, he signed up for a calligraphy class. He has been studying for several years now, and he is very interested and his grades are good.
Children like to make by hand, and I will provide them with materials and help them as much as possible. Sometimes, watching him make a wonderful decision? Works? Show us smugly, full of pride. I feel gratified from the bottom of my heart to see that children dare to do things and get happiness from the process of hand-making.
In addition, we also like to let our children take part in some physical exercises. If a child loves to run and jump, let him exercise more, which will not only strengthen his body, but also make him happy. Why not?
In short, we hope that the child is not only a child who is immersed in his studies, but also hopes that he can have his own fun while studying hard and is a person who loves life.
Educating children is an important task for the whole family. Do parents really need to follow when educating their children? Cultivation? Orientation? Qijia? Only in this way can we move towards the goal of education. This year, I specially bought MP3 and a set of audio amplifier, downloaded the classic explanations and reading materials on the Internet into MP3, and then played them through the amplifier, so that everyone at home can get in touch with this information and learn at the same time. At the same time, the life behavior of family members is restricted and regulated to a certain extent, and the education of children needs the growth of every family member. At the same time, with the help of MP3 Walkman, my learning process of ancient Chinese will be accelerated. I found that there are many excellent traditional cultural resources on the Internet. Over time, my children and I have greatly improved our literary level.
In the process of studying, I have encountered such difficulties. Sometimes, it is not uncommon to be sarcastic but counterproductive. I've been troubled by this, too Later, I thought about it carefully: parents should not only blame their children, but also reflect on their children to see where the problems are and whether they can make them more acceptable in another way. In fact, as long as you are thoughtful and creative, family education can be very interesting.
After the child has some reading ability, I began to try to write some small notes with different contents for the child, even if there are only a few words. I sometimes put these little notes in the children's pencil box, sometimes quietly put them in the children's toy box, and even put them on the refrigerator door, mirror and pillow. It used to be his goal that children can see and find them wherever they are. When the child accidentally found these small notes, it brought him a surprise, and at the same time, it made him truly feel the attention and love of his parents.
Characters and languages have different characteristics. Language is fleeting, and sometimes it doesn't necessarily leave much impression when spoken several times. It's easy to go in one ear and out the other. Writing overcomes this weakness. As long as it is not destroyed, you can take it out at any time, and every time you look at it, you feel that you are reliving it, which is naturally more impressive. Compared with the stormy reprimand and reprimand, this not only takes into account the child's self-esteem, but also is more acceptable to the child.
Not only can children not have more understanding and respect for their parents, but they may force you to make progress with your children. Because with the growth of children's age, the content of notes will no longer be a single praise, criticism, etc., but will gradually expand to recommend a book, introduce a good article, leave a small question that needs to be answered by brains, and even include discussion of a certain point of view. And the content will begin to be rich and colorful, which is also a help to his thinking ability and writing ability training. These come and go, and family education can also add a lot of fun.
I don't know what is right and what is best in children's education, but some aspects of children's education are common, and some things are different according to children's personality and characteristics. In education, we should not only let nature take its course, but also be persuasive and seek a balance between management and no matter what.
? Come on? ! ? Don't lose heart, try again? You did a great job! I'm happy for you! We often give such encouragement to children, and children will make rapid progress in our encouragement. Children need encouragement. We often encourage children to participate in school group activities. When they come back, we will listen to what happened when they took part in the activities and ask him some further questions: What activities did you do today? With who? Are you interested in continuing to participate in such activities? What are the gains and experiences from participating in this activity? Why? In order to arouse children's interest, find problems in time and solve them. So every encouragement we give is a catalyst for his progress. In many aspects of study and life, we give children a lot of encouragement and appreciation. Therefore, the child is confident, and I think it is very valuable for him to have such a positive idea.
Although praise and encouragement are important, sometimes criticism is indispensable. In children's study, sometimes he will feel unhappy when his exam results are less, but we will not severely criticize him for it, sometimes help him find out the reasons and sometimes remind him what to do. Therefore, he has been afraid to tell his parents because of his low test scores.
Teacher Xu, an education expert, said that if family education is limited to how to train children and ignores the real needs for improvement, then such family education will hardly achieve the expected results. Parents' quality is not high, how to have a good family education atmosphere and how to cultivate the next generation with physical and mental health? Parents often lament that the older their children are, the less they know. Yes, when the child was young, you directed the child's words and deeds as an elder everywhere, and never really understood the child's feelings. When children grow up, you will get farther and farther away from them, and a generation gap will also arise. It is difficult to pass on correct concepts and experiences to children, leading to the failure of education. However, if parents can accompany their children to grow up from the beginning, treat them with children's eyes and always maintain a childlike innocence, then, as children grow up, you will find that while children gradually understand the world, you also gradually understand their books and enter their inner world. At this time, you are getting closer and closer to your successful parents.
This is our little experience in the process of educating children, but there are also many shortcomings. In the days to come, we will also learn and teach, explore in practice and make continuous progress in learning, so that children can grow up healthily and happily and become excellent people.
The second part is the experience of teaching children. Through studying in parents' school, I further realized the important role of family education in promoting quality education and helped me establish a correct view of education and talents. I will cooperate with schools and teachers to educate my children well, and I have learned one vivid and meaningful lesson after another in my parents' school, which has benefited me a lot. While every parent wants his child to succeed and his daughter to succeed, how important family education is in the process of children's growth, and it also makes me feel more deeply that it is difficult to be a teacher, a parent and a qualified parent. Being a good parent has a long way to go. Fortunately, there is a parent school. Through her, I have a deeper and newer understanding of family education. While trying to be a good parent, I have also changed and improved in various aspects. Now I will talk about my superficial experience as follows:
The first is the change of educational concept. Through the lectures of several teachers, I understand the requirements of the school for children and how to cooperate with the school to do a good job in children's education. Because I think children listen to teachers best, and I even thought so before. I send my children to school, and it is the school teacher who has the final say in learning well and learning badly, forming a kind of dependence psychology. Through learning, I understand that parents should actively participate in the family education for their children, communicate with teachers more, find the balance between school and family, and organically combine school education with family education to achieve the best effect of education. Through the teacher's lecture, I understand that the core of education is to cultivate children's healthy personality, to cultivate children's self-confidence is the first secret of success, and to cultivate good habits is more important than grades.
Secondly, I have mastered the knowledge and methods of family education and improved my educational ability. Through study, I understand how parents should educate their children. Family is the first classroom to educate children, and parents are their first teachers. The quality of family education will directly affect the healthy growth of children. In daily life, we should pay attention to our words and deeds, educate our children to be polite, abide by various codes of conduct, cultivate children's good behavior habits, create a good growth environment for children, actively cultivate children's various hobbies, often take children to participate in activities beneficial to the body and mind, take them out on holidays to increase their knowledge, and cultivate children's good habits such as loving labor, respecting the old and loving the young, being hard-working and frugal. At the same time, I think in family education, children should be patient and not rude. I personally realize that children sometimes? Disobedient? There are also his reasons. As long as you are patient, you can certainly find out the reason why he made a mistake. Only in this way can you educate your children to treat both the symptoms and the root causes.
Third, improve their own quality. As a child's first school, parents always act as? Teacher? Therefore, we must improve the quality of our education. By listening to the teacher, I have mastered some knowledge about parent-child communication. I know how to assign tasks to children, how to deal with children's demands and rejections, and how to deal with children's anger. To educate children well, we must first establish a good parent-child relationship, make friends with children and respect them. As a qualified parent, we should also be an example, which requires our parents to lead by example! Cultivating children's concept of time and giving them limited time can help them concentrate on things and improve their learning efficiency.
The fourth view of children's success. Through learning, it is clear what kind of person to train children into. The times require the society to cultivate compound new talents to meet the needs of the times. We must cultivate our children into a new generation with good moral quality and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor. In daily life, we can't simply pursue high scores and high education, but ignore the cultivation of children's personality, will and innovation ability. At the same time, we should teach children to get along with different people, cultivate their communication and independent living ability, cultivate their sense of competition and cooperation spirit, and let them become a healthy and developed person in the future.
In short, the child is still young, and the cultivation of the child's ability to distinguish right from wrong and good behavior should come from what he sees in his daily life, the contact environment and the contact education, and the correct education method should be chosen for the child. Now I have deeply realized that being a parent is an art that needs lifelong learning. While caring about his food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is more important to guide him correctly and educate him patiently in all aspects so that his children can become useful people in the future. Family education is the foundation and foundation of education. Without good family education, it is difficult to establish a good school education. Of course, school education in turn affects family education. Children spend a long time in school, and the interaction of classmates and the encouragement of teachers will affect the growth of children throughout their lives. The growth of children must rely on the joint efforts of families and schools.
The third primary school education is the earliest formal education a person receives in his life. Doing a good job in primary education plays an important role in cultivating children's noble morality and good quality from an early age. Good primary education can help children finish primary school, middle school and even university in the future. As the saying goes, Everything is difficult at the beginning? Primary education is life education? Boss? How to make a good start is very important. It can sometimes decide what kind of road a person will take in his life and what kind of conduct he will take in the future.
When my daughter was in the first grade, I always thought that this period should be the best time to cultivate her good study habits. After school, I accompany her to finish her homework every day and ask her to check it and prepare for the review. I always feel that if she forms this habit, she won't have any difficulty in her studies. It's easier said than done. At first, my daughter moved slowly, wrote slowly, and did problems slowly, erasing and writing word by word. There are not many new words in a text, but she has to write half a sentence or even an hour. I got 55 points in a Chinese exam. Later, the teacher called and said that my daughter couldn't do it, but she did it too slowly and asked her parents to exercise her more at home. Therefore, I put an alarm clock on her desk every day when I go home from school to do my homework, so that she can have a sense of time and finish her homework within the specified time. After a period of exercise, my daughter's writing speed is obviously accelerated, the quality of her homework is also very good, and her daughter has confidence. I also bought some homework for her to practice at home on weekends. After I finish, I will help her to correct it with a red pen like a teacher, write down the scores and help her explain her mistakes until she understands. I have kept this habit since I graduated from grade one to grade five. I think this knowledge in primary school is the foundation, and it is nothing more than doing more problems. Watch more questions and do more, and you will do well in the exam. So her grades have always been among the best.
Let me talk about how to tutor three main courses at home.
First of all, I speak Chinese first. Chinese in the lower grades is nothing more than remembering the new words you have learned and then slowly expanding them into words. If you learn more words, you will make sentences. We must lay a good foundation and recite new words and phrases every day. As time goes by, if she knows more words, her reading ability will improve. This is of great help to children's reading analysis and composition in the future. You should also read more extracurricular books. At first, you can read some pinyin extracurricular books, which is helpful to improve pinyin. We should also take our children out to see nature, let her observe everything around her carefully, and let her write what she saw and heard when she wrote her composition in senior grades. With this foundation, coupled with the improvement of children's understanding ability and the increase of reading, it is easy to express their views on things. In Gary, I often buy some books for open reading and reading analysis, so that children can practice more at home, which can improve their reading analysis and let her read good articles. This is really killing two birds with one stone.
I don't have any special tricks about learning mathematics. When children are young, the development of brain language function is greater than logical thinking. In other words, children are slow in logical thinking. Therefore, you should tell your child in a simple way when she encounters a problem that she can't do. Don't talk to her rashly about a topic that you think is simple, but she still doesn't understand. Be sure to think and understand according to the child's thinking. In order to make education conform to the law of children's growth and development, we can focus on cultivating her sensitivity to numbers. Play games and cards one by one, and train her computing ability. When she finishes learning addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, she can play 2 1 dot with her. This can not only learn knowledge, but also increase feelings with children. Once, the school held a parent-child activity, and my daughter and I won the 24-point PK competition. When a child makes a leap in logical thinking, she will learn mathematics faster and easier.
Nowadays, English is much more difficult than when we were young. I also learned from scratch with my daughter. What I learned in school during the day, I listened to it several times in the repeater at night, and let her see it. After reading it, I asked the children to recite the words and memorize them. The knowledge of the day is digested on the same day. Reading, reciting and silent reading are the foundation. They have a solid foundation and can cope with future pronunciation and grammar. Let the children do more homework at home to consolidate it. This kind of English achievement is certainly ok.
In short, primary school students' family education should learn to communicate with their children attentively, that is, be patient and meticulous, and be flexible and diverse. As long as we all become good friends of our children, are we afraid that we can't teach well?