As the child grows up, some unique ideas begin to appear in his mind, and there will be things he wants to do or doesn't want to do. At this time, parents can't help their children make all the decisions as before. They must listen more, know more about their children's hearts, guide them patiently, and respect every conversation with them. Only in this way can we truly understand the needs of children, and growing up with children is also a good experience.
Conflicts between parents and frequent quarrels are also unhealthy family environment. Broken families and long-term separated families make children lack a sense of belonging. If family changes are inevitable, parents should comfort and guide their children in a positive and healthy way, and should not take extreme measures such as neglect of discipline, doting or being too strict, and should not take it out on their children because of family breakdown. Whether it is physical strength, intelligence or experience, adults are always more powerful than children. Therefore, it is unfair for adults to compete with children, and it is disgraceful to win.
Children are not the accessories of their parents, but the independent individuals who belong to this world. He will leave his parents one day and live alone. Therefore, in the face of children's growth, parents should first make full preparations themselves, and can't hold the idea of keeping their children around all the time.
In the face of children's problems, parents should not interfere too much, learn to leave their children alone, and let their children develop the habit of independent thinking from an early age, which is of great help to his future. Therefore, when a child is crying, don't educate him by suppressing emotions, but comfort him and tell him how to release emotions. This is what parents should do most.